me and my wife are young parents and usually go to clubs together. we have a daughter whos 2 months and tonight she wants to go clubbin and wants me to watch our daughter by myself. i cant even change a tire let alone watch my daughter by myself. just kidding. should i be cool with it and let her go? or see if we can find a babysitter and go together if we can! we deserve the time to have fun weve worked so hard but she wants to go tonight and we might not have a babysitter. i dont like it because women who go clubbin are usually single. it sounds like a bad idea. but what do you think? i hate the idea of going seperate.
2007-12-10 14:01:58 · 26 answers · asked by FukcingAngel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a babysitter.. or tell her this...ok sweetheart.. this is your night..but nex t week end is mine to go clubing.. STICK to it.. i bet this stops pronto.. and you will be clubbing together from here on end
2007-12-10 14:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by vis 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I think you should learn to watch your daughter, and enjoy it, it's a chance for you and her to bond. But I do not know why your wife wants to go clubbing without you. I'd much rather go out with my husband than without, so see if you can find a babysitter so you can go too.
2007-12-10 14:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jen70 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You don't need to spend every minute of the day and night with each other. She has friends that she wants to go out with and have a good time and let her hair down. You have a 2 month old baby so she has been restricted to where she could go for nearly a year!! Let her go out and enjoy herself and stay at home and look after your little one and have a bit of daddy baby quality time. She will thank you for looking after the little one and next time both of you go. The last thing on her mind will be other men she has you and your baby at home waiting for her and you give her all the love and attention she will ever need. Trust me she will come home and will of missed you both.... Good luck and let me know how you get on.....
2007-12-10 14:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lou 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
So you want to keep going to a dirty metal building where the music is so loud you cant talk and the watered down drinks juts get you into trouble with the scum who prowl joints like that? Oh and youre negelcting your child too, what great parents you are.
2007-12-10 19:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her a chance. Try to experience how to take care your baby so will know later how hard to do it when you don't know yet.
For her to go to club without you, give her a chance to enjoy herself in your absence. If you let her understand, respect each other, avoid arguing but conversation mutually every night before the both of you go to sleep probably you'll be closer and closer to each other.
2007-12-10 14:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
In my opinion I think you should let her go....reason being, you guys are still individuals and you have to have a little "me" time. it's great that you do things together but you still have your fun and let her have fun as well. You both need a break. Just next time when you want to go out and have a little fun, it should be okay. Just trust her. Good time for you and your baby girl to bond, it'll be okay. My hubby and I are young too, and sometimes you still need to live life! But be responsible and trustworthy at the same time.
2007-12-10 14:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by MadameJazzy 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
If You Care For Her,Find A Babysitter.
Please
2007-12-10 14:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
My husband lets me go out by myself when I feel like it. Sometimes I'm out late, but he's always awake and waiting for me to get home. Sometimes he'll even take me shopping for a new outfit before I go out. When I get home, I always make it worth his while. No matter how late it is!
2007-12-10 14:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Candice B 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ok see when you're PARENTS you shouldn't be going clubbing. If you guys were immature to have kids then you shouldn't have had children at such a young age if you still wanna party. So irresponsible. Let her go by herself and see what time she comes in. Then maybe you two will grow up and become better parents.
2007-12-10 14:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by rosezz50 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I think you guys should have a romantic evening at home. Your wife doesnt need to go clubbing and be a hoochie momma.
2007-12-10 14:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Go with her. Married women that are alone in a club, look available.
2007-12-10 14:09:30 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋