1st off ... i have a mental illness in which it is not my best interest to have significant others or to date at all.... im not a killer or harmful but doctors and therapists throughout my life have alwayss told me its not in my best interest... i have come to peace with that .. and know now that they are right..
with that in mind.... i have alot of female friends... i have guy friends too but alot of female friends... sometimes hanging out with some of my female friends they grow to be interested in me? i do not want this... this isnt to say im irresistible of nething liek that im nothing special... in fact majority of my relationships with the opposite sex never get to that point...
im not flirting or nething like that ...do u think its cuz they want something they cant have? i realli dont flirt at all with them...
neway... this is new to me... i realli dont want any woman to be into me... this never was a concern in my life before.. how do i know when a woman is getting into me?
2007-12-10 13:50:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and no im not gay... if any1 is thinking that... i have no problem w gay plp... i just am not attracted to males....
2007-12-10 13:51:49 · update #1
READ PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!
oh and 1 more thing... other than flat out telling them "oh i dont date"
i say that but sometimes they seem to ignore that... and then its gets into
"why dont u date"? and all this stuff...
i realli want to avoid that..... i just basically wanna kno what situations to avoid ? how can u tell if a woman is in to u? and what do i do to make her unnattracted to me if i do think she is into me?
2007-12-10 13:55:38 · update #2
Figuring out if a woman is into you and making her more or less attracted to you is beyond the skills of 99.5% of the men of the world.
If you think a friend might be attracted to you but you're not sure, just continue to treat her like a friend. That's all you can or should do unless she expresses a non-friend interest.
If that happens, turn her down as an individual (you won't date her) rather than as a group (you don't date). Once you get into the group thing she'll want to know why, and you said you don't want to explain that.
2007-12-10 13:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by DW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I know how you feel, My girlfriend broke with me 3 years ago, at this point I don´t want any kind of relationship besides friends with a girl. The best you can do is be straight with them man. Tell her the truth man, be nice, and period. You could say something like, ey I like you and I love you like a friend no more than that if you feel you can´t handle it the best thing we could do is stop seeing each other" If shes really your friend shes gonna understand your position and period..
Hope it helped.
Greetings.
2007-12-10 21:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by chickenjoe2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know what your mental problem is , so the docs claim anyhow. But you seem to be able to reason sensibly, and in order so I dont think a relationship in time may be wring , but i think youde may want talking to other objective opinions and reasoning
2007-12-10 21:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by loyal american 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. look, all you do is talk to guys in class. you will be surprise to the results.
2007-12-10 21:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋