he's messing with my head, like beyond belief. and i'm falling for it
-he makes me feel guilty for not telling him EVERY aspect of my day, yet he compulsively lies to me
-he's a crazy emotionless wreck, until him being sad works for the situation
-he talks about how much he loves being with me, yet we're broken up due to HIM (we still hang out (WAYYY too much if you ask me))
-he makes me feel sorry for things that are his fault and that he does on his own
i guess the real thing is how do i get away from that? we're gonna be living like 20 minutes apart, but i have no plans to change my phone number so he can still contact me. how do i resist the urge not to call/text him back? how do i not feel so bad for him that i'm his friend again? do i need to act like he's pretty much dead? what's the rules on that stuff? i need complete honesty please!!! BUT i know for a fact that he is both the best and worst thing that has ever happened to me...cause i've learned alot from it
2007-12-10 18:40:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't respond to him unless he is acting mature. When he plays games just walk away. It's his choice if he wants to grow up and communicate with you or not. You should be strong and not give in to his BS.
2007-12-10 18:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The patterns are so common and, the sad results are ultimately the same. You don't need this to feel good about yourself~!!
You should run as fast and far away, emotional from this type of relationship~! It's ending is prewritten by the sad and tragic ending of so many other women before you~!! You want to end up like them? Sadly, the only way to explain it to you is..Go to the nearest morgue and witness, for yourself, the tragic ending of a controlling relationship gone bad~!
Good Luck~!!
2007-12-11 13:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by vovo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. sounds like he has some serious mental and control issues. these types of people will walk all over you. don let them. Just find things to do go out with your girlfriends. you will find that once you start to ignore him he will want you a thousand times more. its going to be tempting but don't answer his calls. Or limit the calls to once a day. just tell him and if he doesn't like it then ignore him, and every time you think about answering it remind yourself of how much he plays with your head.
2007-12-11 02:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Shaye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and say "I'm sorry, I tried hard to keep our relationship but I found out that we don't match". If he keeps asking why, tell him "You're doing it again". lolz
But seriously, if your not happy. Get it over with. You have a life of your own to manage.
2007-12-11 02:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah act like he's dead. Delete his number, like save his number as "Don't Answer!!" or something... that should remind you that talking to him will do no good..
2007-12-11 02:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by bunnysandwizards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we always learn from everyone around us.. so u need to let go.. he will keep you here aslong as you allow him to control your feeling.. u need to get a hold of them and not allow him to make u feel bad for him.. hes like a baby.. once u cry mama always gives you want u want.. if you really want to set yourself for that relationship.. go ahead.. stick around.. everyone deserve better.... happiness.. respect.. if he really cared for you .. he would not try to make u feel bad at all.. some one who cared would always want there partner happy.. not be trying to control your emotions... time to let him know who really is in charged... let him know how u feel.. and its time to move on..... sometimes u need to stand up for yourself..and be straight out... u deserve it... good luck..
2007-12-11 02:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by liveforu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋