don't get my wrong -- I love my bf with all my heart and soul -- but how do you know when you're relationship has hit a dead end?
i'm in my first relationship.. so im not exactly sure.
2007-12-10 18:08:32 · 30 answers · asked by christypooh87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been in a few relationships. You know that its the time to end when there's nothing else that you can do. When you have tired everything to make it work and it doesn't work. Or when you feel like you are putting your best foot forward and the other isn't even giving a little effort. So when you think that you've given all you can give or when you think its just time for you to try other people, or even just get tired of each other. Then its time.
2007-12-10 18:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by ziddy91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is your first relationship. You are about to learn a few things.
1 - you don't love him with all your heart and soul.
2 - you'll hit a dead end when both of you don't care enough about the relationship to keep feeding and working on it. It takes work - and compromise on both sides.
3 - Love is always the answer. If you love each other enough, it will work out. Love is the strongest force on the planet.
2007-12-11 02:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will know when it is over. You will dread having to be around him, and it will take all of your energy to be in the relationship. Everything will be difficult, and there will be many disagreements. Nothing will go smooth, and when you say something is white, he will say it is black. No more caring what you think, or vice versa.
When he starts wanting to be with other people more than you, it is over. The more in love you are, the more you want someone with you.
Luckily, the end of one relationship leaves the door open for another one, which might be Mr. or Mrs. Right. Don't' hang on to any dead relationship.
2007-12-11 02:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When everything starts changing i.e missing appointments, a couple of excuses, too many I am sorrys from one end and less time spent with each other, too many arguments in the relationship. CHECK out FOR DEVIATIONS FROM WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP WAS JUST BEGINNING. I am sure you will get a lot of clues as regards the direction of your relationship. As a warning love 90% and leave 10% for dissapointments.
2007-12-11 02:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by NELE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,,, you surely have to end your relationship if you cannot feel the happiness anymore.., and if you think that you are being tied up in your relationship... and if you always have fights when there is nothing wrong.... and you should really end your relationship with a guy or a girl if you can feel that there is no love inside your heart anymore....
2007-12-11 02:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by ohtszoh_08 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you, then you guys need to talk about the issues you're having...does he feel the same way you do regarding hitting a dead end? If so, then you guys need to talk about what you can do to move past that, or else talk about if it's time for you guys to part ways. If he doesn't feel the same way as you do with the dead end thing, then you need to talk to him about why you're feeling the way you do and hopefully be able to move past things.
If you've already tried talking about things and nothing's been resolved, then it might be time to call it quits. But if you love him, explore all you can to try to work things out before deciding to break up with him.
2007-12-11 02:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, there is no right or woring time. Each of us have a different endurance to relationships. For me personally it would be lack of chemistry, commitment and respect. Also, sometimes we just get bored and feel its a dead end....if you still love him maybe the excitement is lacking and you can work on that....
2007-12-11 02:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about it enough to ask that question on a site like this (not just a small thought in your head)...that is probably not a good sign...In the back of your mind, you should be able to tell if you are unsure, or if you are unhappy in your current situation. It also depends on how deep your love for him is, and what kind of love it is...I have loved a significant other, but I knew that it wasn't "the One." You should be able to feel it when it is true and absolute love, and then you should be able to not question it.
2007-12-11 02:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous_dude 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
your about to get dump if
1. you get the nagging feeling like your always left hanging
2.he gets mad at you over dump stuff
3.he argues with you on purpose to find a reason to leave
4. he only wants to hang out with you when he has nothing else to do
5. he's doesnt want to have sex with you
2007-12-11 02:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by whew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you actually get BORED when you're hanging out with them. When you just don't see a future.
You should also stop and think:
Are you only with him, because you're afraid to be without him? Or that you wouldnt be able to find someone else?
2007-12-11 22:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by shannonreckless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋