There is this guy who claims to have feelings for me and I am considering having a relationship with him.He is a charmer and flirt,but I have no prob with that until today.I saw him being super nice to a russian woman, real stunner now. He is attracted to her, I have heard this because a co- worker told me that he blushes everytime he sees her.Is this just part of what men do and means nothing? Or should I be worried that he is lying to me?
2007-12-10 22:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i cant speak for all men but I'm married and i love my wife don't get me wrong, but if i see an attractive women i will flirt or make comments or what ever to get her attention just to see if i still got what it takes to get noticed if you know what i mean, but it goes no farther for me anyway.
2007-12-10 22:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by big-tdl81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blushing is hormonal. That is to say, when I blush it is not because of emotion, but testosterone. Being nice, that is hopefully something you want from this guy. Is he mean to everyone else? Being attracted to someone is 99% physical. Maybe the Russian chick has a nice backside. Maybe he sees thrill in the bragging rights of being with this woman. Before you take any of our advice though you should talk more to him. Not about you or the other girl though, just find out more about his character. From experience I can tell you the best relationship is going to be one where it is o.k. to do what you want. Even if that is having a fantasy about someone who is not your partner.
2007-12-10 23:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by anton t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy is just looking, at this point its hard to say. If you dont go out with him maybe she will, it all about the odds. Ask 10 people and 1 is bound to go for the bait, oldest sales trick in the world.
2007-12-10 22:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just something guys do any attractive girl we are going to flirt with. Its in our nature, you shouldnt be to worried its not serious between you to yet. Go on with your plans and see how it goes if he still flirts with her after your official then you need to have a talk but for now its just harmless flirting
2007-12-10 22:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, play hard to catch if he really want you for real hi will do the correct things a man will do when is in love.Open your eyes forget what other said. Use that only us a reference..
Use well what women have your six sense and you will do well for yourself in life
2007-12-10 23:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Bratso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably sees you as the girl he would like to settle down with so he wants to keep you close but before then, why not have some fun.
2007-12-10 22:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Coolness. Now in a brand new man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing a man is not gonna do that is wait til you decide if you want to be with him or not. So yes you should be worried if he's interested in somebody else.
2007-12-10 22:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to "consider" having a relationship with someone, it's not worth your time and it sounds like he has an interest in someone else anyway.
2007-12-10 22:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to take your time and observe from a distance.
If you want to play, play..if you are in earnest, listen to what your mind tells you while you observe, and listen what people say, and check it out too.
2007-12-10 22:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Featherman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to tell unless you know him well, and I don't. But you do. I would suggest that you take your time and give him enough rope to hang himself before making any sort of commitment to him.
2007-12-10 22:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋