what do you say?
2007-12-10 23:14:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It seems as though in all my relationships, I loved deeper than the male did. I have tried to figure it out. Woman just love differently. When a woman loves a man, everything she says and does in an entire day is about showing him how much she loves him.. Now a man on the other hand, mend tend to think of themselves...I have never met a man that wasn't selfish. I also think the way we love and care about others is because that is the way God man us,. He made us special. My goodness, we are the ones that he chose to carry the baby and to love and nuture the baby. Our love will protect the baby til our deaths. There is no extreme we won't go to, to protect those we love., Thats just the way we are. I once told a friend, if it was possible to die of a broken heart, I would be dead a long time ago., but somehow it mends. I am sending you something I would like for you to read. You may have read it but thats okay, maybe you would enjoy seeing it again.
One Flaw In Women
By the time the Lord made woman,
He was into his sixth day of working overtime.
An angel appeared and said,
"Why are you spending so much time on this one?"
And the Lord answered, "Have you seen my spec sheet on her?
She has to be completely washable, but not plastic,
have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable
and able to run on diet coke and leftovers,
have a lap that can hold four children at one time,
have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart
-and she will do everything
with only two hands."
The angel was astounded at the requirements.
"Only two hands!? No way!
And that's just on the standard model?
That's too much work for one day.
Wait until tomorrow to finish."
But I won't," the Lord protested.
"I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart.
She already heals herself when she is sick
AND can work 18 hour days."
The angel moved closer and touched the woman.
"But you have made her so soft, Lord."
"She is soft," the Lord agreed,
"but I have also made her tough.
You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."
"Will she be able to think?", asked the angel.
The Lord replied,
"Not only will she be able to think,
she will be able to reason and negotiate."
The angel then noticed something,
and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek.
"Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model.
I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one."
"That's not a leak,"
the Lord corrected,
"that's a tear!"
"What's the tear for?" the angel asked.
The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy,
her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love,
her loneliness, her grief and her pride."
The angel was impressed.
"You are a genius, Lord.
You thought of everything!
Woman is truly amazing."
And she is!
Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness,
love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give.
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.
2007-12-10 23:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
A women is always a symbol of love. A Caring Mother,
a Responsible Sister, a Passionate Lover, a Faithful Wife, a honest friend, a Kind Teacher.
Wife loves as well as understands her husband more than he does, where as the husband considers his wife as a form of Lust and passion in most of the cases.
So Elucidating further, Wife has a Deeper Love.
2007-12-10 23:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by salman k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love if present at all is better than no love at all.
How though, do you judge who has the deeper love? Or is it just that important for you to be better?
Can a person love someone more than another? Can a parent love one child more than another? And again, how do you know?
It is not un-common I would think for a woman to think she loves her husband more. Due to the fact that women tend to be more sensitive to everything, but this does not mean a man who may not be as emotional does not love his wife with all of his heart. He may need to show her more, but then again, show me a woman who doesn't need to be re-inforced everyday and I'll show you an honest politician!
Yoda out
2007-12-10 23:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe thats true because a woman goes out of her way to show her love to her husband more so than a man. If a man goes to prison a woman will stick by him faithfully in a lot of cases but a man will stray and say he has needs. A man is more likely to have an affair than a woman. When a woman loves she loves hard she will fight for what is hers. When a woman is under pressure she looks to her spouse, when a man is under pressure he looks outside the relationship and then cause more chaos.
2007-12-10 23:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by latinamochalatte20052000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different maybe, deeper perhaps not.
What you describe a deeper can be viewed as clingy.
It takes a bit of confidence to deal with a mate.
Perhaps you could start there.
2007-12-10 23:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that is true at all. Men are not prone to show their emotions as quickly as women do. That does not mean a man cares less than his wife does. Men hide their emotions.
2007-12-10 23:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a typical stereotype, you can't say all women have deeper feelings than men. That's like saying all women ask stupid questions which isn't true
2007-12-11 00:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
indeed yes coz the man who was to u before he being ur husband was someone different and marriage is such a bond that there are invisible strings that tie together two different people to the long journey called life...n yes post marriage life changes coz its on the foundation of a strong relationship
2007-12-11 00:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by sameer_billu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not always equal in relationships. Sometimes one will love more than the other. That is just a fact of life.
2007-12-10 23:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so, i think the man's has more passion and the woman's love has more affection. but it's not like which one is deeper, can't be compared.
2007-12-10 23:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋