when i cry or say what he is doin hurts me, he doesn't care and just tells me to go with someone else and say he told me he is not right for me. but i love him but he treats me like this and i tell him he is wrong but he doesn't listen.
what do i do? will ignoring him show if he loves me by callin me. how can i see if he loves me, cos i truely love him but i want to get married, and i can wait to marry him as long as at the end we do get married but if he doesn't love me and is just using me, then i don't want him and need to find a new partner.
what to do, i cry every night. i just want to have somone who loves me for once
2007-12-14 04:12:30 · 11 answers · asked by LALITA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
[Quote: "I want to have someone who loves me for once"]
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Trust me, he's not the marrying kind. Dump him without hesitation, don't look back, and find a love that's true. You can do it!
2007-12-14 04:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by clayinspiration 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way...Do you want this type of relationship for the rest of your life? Do you want a guy that doesnt give two shits about you or your feelings? IF YES..than stay with this creep. IF not, then move on and DO NOT i repeat DO NOT just get with any o'le guy....YOU find the man that will love you tenderly, desire you..care for you and will never let go....YOU can find him you just gotta break free from the losers to do it.... :-) believe me i have been with a guy like yours...and it will never get any better....
2007-12-14 04:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by kakeydec 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave I know you 'think' you love him but obviously if he doesn't love you the way you would like him to then it's not! You will find someone out there that will love you unconditionally you just have to give it time. So leave his sorry a** and take sometime out to heal from him and then find you a better man!! I know you can!! I DID!!
2007-12-14 04:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kassie D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes refusing to invest any emotion into the relationship.
You know what that means....
Sometimes men don't know what they want though. Take a break from him and maybe he'll end up missing you. That means no calling him, and if you can, date someone else in the mean time.
2007-12-14 04:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by bo75007 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU! HE'S USING YOU FOR SEX! GET OUT NOW!
When a man tells you that he is not right for you or that he isn't good enough for you, BELIEVE HIM. It doesn't matter what you feel for him, he doesn't feel it for you.
Leave him now, don't take his phone calls, block his email. As long as you are tangled up with this loser you will never meet a man who will love and respect you.
2007-12-14 04:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it really annoys me hearing someone being hurt in a relationship nagging,crying about it when when she's still in this relationship.
Stop being this soft woman and being a drama queen..just look at yourself..your like desperate for this loser..and for WHAT??
2007-12-14 04:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you trying to find ways to see if he loves you? He doesn't and you need to have more respect for yourself
move one and find someone that respects you and wants to be with you. Stop wasting ur tears, heart, and time on someone who isn't doing the same or worth it
2007-12-14 04:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousStacy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is called an unhealthy relationship. you should not be crying everynight. you should be with someone that makes you happy.. i understand what ur going through; im inlove w/ someone that does the same f-ing thing. i cut him out of my life; it was extremely hard at first, but then i met someone else who is showing me how i should be treated and that i deserve to be happy, u only live one life, why be miserable?
2007-12-14 04:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, this man does not love you, and never will. I'm sorry to say that, but its true, you know this.
2007-12-14 04:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by JenJen 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i was in a relationship like that. hes using you for company. dump him before he dumps you and you feel even worse about the situation
2007-12-14 04:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Danni 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋