2007-12-14 03:28:38 · 35 answers · asked by Ivory33 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, If I truley loved them.... But I have learnt that your judgement can be clouded in a relationship, when you are in love, and I very much value particualy my mothers opinion, so I would ask her truthfully the reasons why she did not approve, and would concider them all very carefully, and without bias, as much as was humanly possible of someone who was in love....
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2007-12-14 03:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I think you really have to look at each individual situation though. My parents hate my boyfriend but he's absolutely wonderful and I would never break up with him because they don't like him. Yes, he is now in their lives too but it's more important that I like who I am with than it is that they approve. Has your mom ever picked out clothes for you? If she's like mine - they are absolutely nothing like what I would want to wear.... sometimes parents want things for you that aren't what you want or need. At the same time, you need to give consideration to their problems and make sure they aren't seeing something you're not. Good luck!
2007-12-14 03:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Katie T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Lucky for me though, my parents LOVE my boyfriend. Not that I would let that influence my descision making, but it def. is nice.
However, I wouldnt marry a guy JUST because my parents dont approve. I wouldnt let my parents get in the way of me being happy.
2007-12-14 03:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by melissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 9 times out of 10 the parents only see the "act" that the guy puts on or they see a "little bit or taste" of what hes like.. based on them asking a series of questions and stuff.. (poor guy lol) anywayz so judging by that NO they would never really know how he is because they havent gotten to know him on a relationship level they way u have.. however if this guy is broke.. and doesnt have a job and treats u like crap and EVERYONE knows it and even u do but ur in denial then yes listen to your parents there only LOOKING OUT FOR YOU.. however most of the time thats not the case.. so i can safley say that its ok to listen to your heart and if your heart is telling you that this guy is the one for you then go for it after all your the one marrying him not them.. if they dont accept that then there gonna have to try to accept that because your there daughter (or son lol) and they should love you no matter who your with or what you choose to be.. gay or bi or whatever lol..
2007-12-14 03:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the person you are with and your parents don't approve of him, it's ok. Eventually they will either overcome this and be there for both of you or they won't. Don't live your life for them live your life for you. Would you rather spend your life with the person you love or be miserable just they don't approve. You have to live your life for you not for them. Good luck and I hope that helps.
2007-12-14 03:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry someone my parents DID approve of.
2007-12-14 03:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Imarai 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, your the one marrying the person and living your life with them, so if it's who you love and want to be with then your parents will have to get over it.
2007-12-14 03:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by ME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why they didn't approve. If it's because they aren't the pro at the local golf club (my grandparents wanted my mum to marry him rather than my dad), then you've got to ignore them. If it's because your potential spouse is a drug dealing pimp then I think you have to listen to the voice of reason.
2007-12-14 03:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by nwobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call. Depends on your relationship with your parents ultimately I wouldn't. Some would simply to rebel or because they don't care. I guess I'd value my parents input, unless they had a track record of not caring about me...
2007-12-14 03:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went with the one that everyone liked and thought was perfect for me. Now i'm miserable and have never had so much stress in my life. Do what you want - don't let others force u into making a decision. You'll just end up regretting them.
2007-12-14 03:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by Shiloh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋