i need help ?? what to say to an old lover?

Question

ok well i havn't talk to this kid like in 7 months and i was looking at myspace and saw his page. so i wanna send him a message to see hows he doing but i don't know what to say!! can ya'll help me out a little. god bless you all

Answer 1

Just say, "Hey, saw your page! Looking good!" (if it is looking good). That'll be enough. If he wants to talk to you, here's his chance. If he doesn't, it's best to let it be.

If he doesn't talk to you, though, don't be freaked out. He might just be confused, and think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, so to speak.

A lot depends on how you broke up, and what you want to do with him in the future. If you just want to be friends, be sure and tell him that when he replies. If you want to see where it goes, play it cool.

Answer 2

just start with something small, like hey i havent talked to you in a while- how are things goin?
if he writes back then maybe you guys can talk about other things.
do you want him back?

Answer 3

Leave the kid alone and get on with your life.