She Broke My Heart .. Was She Right ??

Question

I luv a girl since we were in grade 4 ... I was 9 yro ....
In Grade 7 ... we were best frndz for about 1 1/2 years ..
@ the beginning of Grade 8 ... I told her that I love her
Some weeks later .. She said that she luvs me
But Last Thurs. She said that we cant love each other ... She said i was playin wiz ur heart .. And we r too young 2 love " we r 13 "
I CRIED .. I remember the last time i cried 4 yrs ago .. when my grandma died .... I cried heavily ... But i still luv her .. What shall i do ??

Answer 1

for the time being just be her FRIEND..... hang out and enjoy her!! maybe shell come aROUND

Answer 2

That first feeling of a heartbreak is the worst. You'll feel better. When you feel better, ask her, "How do you think I'm playing with your heart?" The older you get, the more you realize you have to communicate well to understand each other. Be a good friend now and listen to her. You have lots of time. And try to be light, carefree, fun around her! If you are serious and desperately in love, sometimes people get scared. Be yourself and be in love with life. She is not your reason for living. She is one little part in a big life waiting for you! There's so much to fall in love with out there, and not just one person. If you can do this, she will remember why she loves you, whether you are together or not.

Answer 3

u need to give it some time, she's right because the two of you are really young and you dont even know what love is, you may really like her and she has always been the one that has your attention, but your just recently entering middle school (ithnk) and there are going to be a whole lot of other girls cross your path, if you really care about this girl, one thing you do know is that you are in school together and you will always be in her path, as long as its in school,so. Focus on school,remain her friend, and who knows?! Maybe a little further down the line,the two of you will reunite.So she was right in the two of you saying you were young and not knowing what love is, but she was wrong in saying that she was playing with your heart, she shouldnt say that much less do it! why would you want to be with someone who would say or do something like that, get over her, there are bettre girls out there.

Good luck

Answer 4

OK, you cried. Now you need some chocolate, and a good book, or two or three funny DVDs. Wallow in your depression on Saturday, with your book/DVDs, and then go out Sunday, get some exercise and find something constructive to do.

Then, if you still love her, give her time. You can't make her love you. But she might change her mind one of these days. You can offer to be her friend (but if it hurts too much, stay away from her until you feel less painful).

Answer 5

Thers never an age limit with love.At the moment im kinda expericnicng the same problem the best thing to do is still be friends with her and treat her real nice and kind.eventually she will realize shes been a really bad Person for saying those kinda things.Then shell probally fall in love with you the same way you do.If this dosent work i would suggest you let her go.If a girl is horrible enough to do sumin like that then i guess she isint worth it.

Answer 6

Your 13. Not saying you can't love, believe me. But you have to respect what she says. Try to just be her friend still and see what happens as you both get older. Maybe she spoke with her parents and they told her what she said because that sounds like a parent line. I know your heart is broken but don't let it take you too far down. Crying isn't a bad thing. It lets out the hurt. Good luck.

Answer 7

Well, you are kind of young to be "in love" but give her some space. Tell her that you understand how she feels, but that your feelings are true. Also tell her that you will give her some space, but if she changes her mind that you are here for her. Continue to be her friend. Maybe in a couple years she'll feel the same. I dumped my boyfriend after he told me he loved me...it was too much to take in and I couldn't believe it. Now I'm back with him and we're reaching our 1 year anniversary.
GL!!

Answer 8

im 13 too and my friends and i think about this every single day! my ex boyfriend told me he loved me every single night before i went to sleep! and i wrote it back to him too! but then i realised that we realy are too young for love and it started bugging me! so i broke up with him!

the girls mind makes them think at all times what can be wrong! that was my solution and probably your crush's too!

i think shes completely right were only 13 how can u love her so much... lets think of it this way...
if u like her personality (which should be the reason u love her) she might change! she might not have the same personality in years time! i changed drasticly since my ex last told me he loves me! if it the looks u like about her than i thnk u are a total ass hole and yeah her looks are going to change too! and if its both just remember that u might not like the person that she might become!

and besides u might just change too!

Answer 9

That's really sad, i feel sorry for you, but you know what, if you continue to love her your hurting yourself even more. Since she has no interest in love right now, don't hurt your self over it. Maybe in the future when you two are alittle older she'll realize she's ready for you. Don't force it.

Good Luck sweetie :)

Answer 10

Tell her its not a marriage proposal and you can just take things slowly and that you aren't messing with her and you've felt that way for quite some time.

Answer 11

no one has the right to break ur heart man...im oso 13 and i hv a gf.my mums all rite with it...anyway i wanna be a Marine.my gf knows it and she supports me,just like my frens and family.
ur fren'
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