We used to be the best of friends.
Go out everyday
Hold hands.
And somehow,One day...She began ignoring me
She hated me
I had no idea what I had done...
I was her good friend... The best actually
She didnt tell me the reason..
She just walked out of my life
Did she know I began to like her?
Did she know I actually loved her.
What was my fault?
What had I done?
When I began to have feelings for her she just walked outta my life
Life had shattered for me
Some part of me had died.
However, I still love her
Its been 3 months.
Im a girl too.
She kinda accepts the gay/lesbian community
But she ran away just like that...
I definitely didnt tell her abt my orientation
2007-12-14 00:06:19 · 6 answers · asked by Samantha G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She has other lesbian friendds
2007-12-14 00:12:04 · update #1
She is not ready for an alternative relationship. It probably scares her and/or she doesn't understand her own feelings for you. Let her be. You need to find someone who can share and care for you and be perfectly okay and accepting with your lifestyle.
2007-12-14 00:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by llselva4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she didnt know you are a lesbian, so unless something happens that makes her think you are, maybe it's not about you. Friendships, like all relationship can end or be put on hold for reasons unknown to the other person.
If she knows you are a lesbian and have feelings for her, putting myself in her sitaution, I would be a little confused. I would need time away to sort through thoughts and how to preceed (it's the same thing when guy/girl friendship take it to the next level ... usually one person needs a little time to think things through or avoid the other person).
If she didnt know you are a lesbian and something happened to make she think you are, she might be angry and feel betrayed.
Give it time. She'll either come around and be a friend again, or you'll find someone else.
2007-12-14 00:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's awkward, that's true. sometimes too overwhelmingly so. so overwhelming that she just doesn't know how to react, so many emotions emerge such as confusion, betrayal, hurt, doubt...
did she say she hate you? did she say anything?
don't jump to conclusions. maybe she's dealing with something entirely different. maybe it's not even related to what you're feeling for her... try to ask other people about it, like your other friends, her friends. you do deserve an explanation at least. best of friends right? that should count for something.
2007-12-14 00:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure she doesnt like you in that way aswell? maybe she to is a lesbian but has not accepted it yet and is indeed worries what you will think of her. maybe you should tell her, talk to her about it. good luck hun =) xx
2007-12-14 00:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question on the last part of it. maybe she felt that you are into more than a friendship, and maybe she doesn't want to end up with you. maybe she's a straight one. sorry for that
2007-12-14 00:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Quel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you die?NO that impossible do crazy in love your female
like amy rose love sonic at sonic X BUT CRY NEED LOVE IN EPISODE 52
best answer for me or someone get to the top friends now?!!!
2007-12-14 00:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Michael S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋