Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

I recently found out about these personal ad accounts, which he just opened in the last 2 weeks. None of the accounts are paid accounts. I did confront him about it and he said he was just curious and only wanted to see if anyone would respond to his postings, they were all asking for an above 60 year old lady, he is younger by 10 years. He says he is only seeking a friendship that's why so old, because he thinks there will be no physical attraction to somebody that age. He has been a loner most of his adult life and besides me has one other friend, but says he cannot talk to her about personal stuff and get advice. He keeps saying he loves me and its not about our marriage, he just wants to make some friend to talk to and he does not feel comfortable with other men as friends. I am really depressed and am also in no position to move out financially, we have been together almost 8 years. What should I do?

2007-12-14 14:23:16 · 22 answers · asked by special_k_in_fla 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is no affair we are just real good friends for 8 years.

2007-12-14 14:21:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 14:20:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

at another girl, your boobs, your eyes, etc.? how do you have these instincts and guys dont?

2007-12-14 14:20:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after you have relations with your partner what do you do? Go to sleep, cuddle, watch t.v., or take a shower?

2007-12-14 14:19:11 · 19 answers · asked by OUT OF ORDER 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 14:18:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 14:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you feel if he said he would feel wrong for having you cook and do laundry, so he never makes you?

2007-12-14 14:16:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your ex-gf sent you a text telling you she's hot for you and wants you to come over and have sex.... would you?

my ex-bf broke up w/ me a week ago b/c things were getting too serious for him and he got scared. i've tried to call and text but he doesn't respond. i know he's out partying and drinking right now too. do you think he'll respond???
(and yes i do intend on following through when/if he comes over).

2007-12-14 14:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you help me find place that me and my boyfriend can enjoy. We are still young and I want to make him happy. do you have any suggestion as to where we can go, oh yeah i live in Chicago if that helps any...

2007-12-14 14:13:46 · 6 answers · asked by butta 1 in Singles & Dating

I get the best feeling in the world when you say hi to me, or even smile, because I know even if just for a second, I crossed your mind.

2007-12-14 14:12:49 · 1 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

What about your husband, bf, partner etc that they do pisses you off the most....and i am talking about things that they say, do or dont do that really gets on your nerves...my husband has a way of saying the wrong things......like tonight for starters....he had vacation for next week and now comes home and tells me that he isnt taking it because something has come up at work and "we" cant afford for him to have vacation.....just the way he said it make me mad because he implied that it was some how my fault that he cant handle his money......not my fault....maybe he should not buy crap he doesnt need...but oh well....so i want to hear your thoughts on this. :)))

2007-12-14 14:11:49 · 14 answers · asked by blah blah blah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

would you rather never have sex again, or never listen to music again?

2007-12-14 14:11:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I use to have eachoters myspace passwords along time ago. Then all he sudden he changed his. There is this girl who constantly rights him after every comment I make I swear. I just don't get it. Maybe Im being paranoid. He won't delete her though even though I have expressed how much she bothers me. Confused...

2007-12-14 14:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have them imprisioned-or worse?

2007-12-14 14:09:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, there's this girl and I "had" a crush on her but because of the past events I have lower opinions of myself no more self-esteem So because of that the complicated part of my mind said if I truly do have a crush on her let's stop for her sake because of my low self-esteem and no more confidence and the feeling i'm the most hated and terrible
What do I do?

2007-12-14 14:08:30 · 4 answers · asked by JD 2 in Singles & Dating

im 8 months pregnant me and my husband have been married for almost 2 years. we dated for almost 4 years. when we dated he was in trouble for marijuana, did some time and even had to do an outpatient rehab. well he decided to join the national guard after the birth of his son (by his ex-wife) and he stopped with marijuana all together. but ever since he got off active duty he hasnt been able to quit the habit this time. now we live with his parents i cant work due to pregnancy he has a job but they fired him last week for not coming in but he begged for the job back and they gave it back. well he didnt go in again today cause he stays up all night smoking and playing video games that he cant wake up in the morning for work.i really want us to get our own place but he spends like 10-20 bucks a day smoking, i know that dont seem like much but it adds up. on top of that i cant even get a little money for anything.its really unfair. what should i do give him more time to change or no.

2007-12-14 14:06:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 14:03:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she is 28 and I am 31.

2007-12-14 13:59:49 · 28 answers · asked by Miles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy claimed he adored me. He also claimed himself to be a catholic to the core.

We have known each other for over 4 years. I do not want to have relationship with him because I am a virgin. I want to wait until marriage. I know he attracted to me sexually and wanted affection.

He recently blamed me for all the mistake. He claimed I have been strung him along. He could not wait for me. Then, he turned the table around and made be the bad person and asked me to leave him alone.

My question is. Since he claimed himself to be "the good catholic man" why can he be one?

It is just all talk--no action!

Thank you very much.

2007-12-14 13:59:20 · 13 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel about tall women? I was just curious. My husband loves it. I am 5'11"

2007-12-14 13:58:33 · 13 answers · asked by Kricket T 3 in Singles & Dating

some big butt-ed girl was comparing her butt from mine,is it my fault i got a small butt Help me find a way to have my own Big butt because a small one has a small reputation you see..

2007-12-14 13:51:57 · 8 answers · asked by Hazee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and hiding it from you
would you get a divorce?

2007-12-14 13:49:45 · 18 answers · asked by sarah w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

To the out-laws for Christmas?

2007-12-14 13:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by arvindrenamed 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance has irresponsible spending habits, I am not trying to tell him what to do, but it looks like I'm saving all the money here and it doesn't seem right to me. I had to remind him that my savings is my "emergency" stash not his, if he gets into trouble and has no money than thats his fault for not saving anything. Is his compulsive spending habits and bad credit a reason to break up? I really dont want to but I'm scared that one day we could be evicted or have a foreclosed house b/c he can't stop spending on junk.

2007-12-14 13:45:49 · 7 answers · asked by Kara A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I hope I am not sounding greedy but gas is expensive nowadays and it takes money to get around town with you know? Plus, I like to get soft drinks sometime too :) I mean I know if a man lost his job then ofcourse there shouldn't be an allowance and all but I am talking in general. I want to know what others think though. Thanks :)

2007-12-14 13:42:41 · 19 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

happiness or can it just rent it for a little while. .. i say rent...some say buy

2007-12-14 13:41:31 · 17 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

So my life is in enough stress. And now i find out that my mom smokes pot. What do i do? And dont give me that "smoke it with her" bull sh!t. I feel like I have nobody that I can trust. She always told me not to do it and now she is. I am so p!ssed i want to disown her! And dont tell me "dont worrie about it". She gets in to my buisness, im getting in hers!

2007-12-14 13:37:10 · 3 answers · asked by luv bites (so do i) 3 in Singles & Dating

as soon as you saw them on this question on the part when they answered

2007-12-14 13:33:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 13:32:57 · 7 answers · asked by hello 1 in Marriage & Divorce