What about your husband, bf, partner etc that they do pisses you off the most....and i am talking about things that they say, do or dont do that really gets on your nerves...my husband has a way of saying the wrong things......like tonight for starters....he had vacation for next week and now comes home and tells me that he isnt taking it because something has come up at work and "we" cant afford for him to have vacation.....just the way he said it make me mad because he implied that it was some how my fault that he cant handle his money......not my fault....maybe he should not buy crap he doesnt need...but oh well....so i want to hear your thoughts on this. :)))
2007-12-14 14:11:49 · 14 answers · asked by blah blah blah 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HAAA!!!! thanks to sarhla for that....and yes i need a glass of wine.....a really BIG one.......he just gets on my nerves and all i can do is walk out of the room before i yell at him....grrrrr
2007-12-14 14:23:39 · update #1
thanks "whogives" you all are making me feel a little bit better at least you all are making me laugh a bit and that is making me think things over..... :)-
2007-12-14 14:32:18 · update #2
Somebody needs a glass of wine.
And that would be.... YOU!
Quite honestly, I think you are taking it personally, when it wasn't really meant that way. Don't get into an argument over it. Just give him a "Honey Do" list of all the things you were expecting him to do while he was on "Vacation". Tell him since he has cancelled it without discussing it with you, that you expect him to do it in his free time after work.
LOL - You feel better yet?
Oh, yeah - I forgot - you wanted to know what one thing pisses me off? When my husband snaps at me or our daughter because he is tired and is taking things personally, when it wasn't anything personal.
2007-12-14 14:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by sarlha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a deeper issue at hand here. The two of you need to work together to create goals that you want to achieve which will dictate how you save and spend your money. We all have enough money, it's just that some folks don't use it wisely. I suggest reading a book such as Money Matters by Dave Ramsay.
However, to answer your question, the thing that pisses me off the most is the fact that my wife tends to put our relationship after everything else, making sex a once in a blue moon activity.
2007-12-14 14:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What can you do? Your zebra has definite zig-zag stripes on his tactless verbal abilities. Maybe listen to what was said and not how it was said , and if you can take the verbal abuse, its your call. But for a man to tell me I can't handle his money well when he's the one spending it left and right - I'd take that bottle of wine and swing it where the sun don't shine.
2007-12-14 14:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-11 07:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what pisses me off.. is when my husband tells me we suddenty can't afford a vacation that i thought was gonna happen; or dinner out; or anything...
its the fact that they kept this issue from you ... its a trust thing i think. if i can't trust him to manage his money how the hell can he take care of our family?? so .. i think i will open that bottle of wine for US!!! lol :)
2007-12-14 17:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's actually too many to name but the biggest one is when he falls asleep in his chair and I let him nap for oh maybe an hour and then I try to wake him up and make him go to bed and I keep trying for the next 3 hours or more & finally I give up and then when it is time for him to get up for work- he says " why in the hell didn't you wake me up and tell me to go to bed??" I have recorded myself just so he can hear how many times I repeat myself trying to make him go to bed but he thinks I recorded it when he wasn't here!??Why I would do that I don't know! But I have tried to just use the recording to make him go to bed but that doesn't work either!
2007-12-14 16:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get a job, earn my own money and tell him that's too bad he won't be taking a vacation but I am and I'll see him when I get home.
2007-12-14 15:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Next time he buys something "he doesn't really need" ask him .... "How much Overtime is THAT going to cost you?" lol !!
Just tell him to watch his tone and his tongue. And take a big gulp of wine for me too !! lol !!
2007-12-14 15:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by casper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His snoring! Know he can't help it but if I don't fall asleep first he snores so loud even the TV won't drown him out.
2007-12-14 18:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really pissed off if the sun did not come up tomorrow because i would not be able to see all the beautiful there is to see.
My wife is awesome so i have no complaints with her,
2007-12-14 14:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋