Relationships question for experts and intermediates?

Question

Well, there's this girl and I "had" a crush on her but because of the past events I have lower opinions of myself no more self-esteem So because of that the complicated part of my mind said if I truly do have a crush on her let's stop for her sake because of my low self-esteem and no more confidence and the feeling i'm the most hated and terrible
What do I do?

Answer 1

First, resolve your self-esteem problem, then start a relationship... Relationships are different because people are different. If you start that, thinking you will have the same problems, probably you will act like you did in your past relationship, and probably you gonna end at the same situation. Just believe yourself as a great person and give your best to the new experience!! Don't carry bad things from the past because the past is gone already. Everyone has the right to be happy!! If she is a nice person and she likes you chances you have she will help you. But remember, the first person who should help you is yourself.

Good luck and be happy!!

Answer 2

Well, thats an inside job. It has nothing to do with the girl, it has everything to do with you. Do things that you enjoy and rebuild your self-esteem. Take action and become who you want to become. The girl would just be an added bonus. Everything that happens to us in this life is meant to build us up, not knock us down. There is always a lesson and always a way to grow. Whatever it is, try to look at it from a different perspective. What is the lesson? What have you learned and what can you change as a result of the experience? Then move on, stronger than you were before.

Answer 3

Ok, the thing thing is... you can't possibly be in a good relationship if you have low self esteem. Even if you do end up asking her out, in order for it to work, you need to be positive and confident. To me, there is nothing that turns me off more than low self esteem. You need to work on your problems before you can start a relationship, if you don't, then those problems are brought into the relationship. Whatever happened to give you such low self esteem, learn to accept it. You have to realize that bad things happen, and all you can do about it is live and learn from your mistakes.

Answer 4

If the feeling don`t get any better in the next few days try talking to her about the past events. Tell her about the crush you had on her. Try to stop feeling like you are hated and terrible. I Bet she likes you.