We agreed to separate and live in different rooms. No intimacy for 3 years, no kids. He lied that he wanted them for 7 years, I ended up having an affair after 2 years of sleeping alone.. Suppose, we hurt each other in the past, but he just can't stop! He checks for my "whereabouts", eats my food (does not bother to clean) and demand me to bring him crisps and salsa. Three weeks it was "I don't want you to spend Christmas with my parents", then yesterday "I never told you that", then "you should come if you are going to be alone". My brain melts. Tonight I found his love letters with a young girl (he is 39) he met over Internet. She is from a small city in Russia and sends him photos (okay, not in bikinis, but still a bit too much for first letters). I don't care - whatever! But it hurts! I don't even fully understand my feelings! It's over, for sure. I don't see any chances for future. But I am just so exhausted! Coming home and having to put up with his antics!
2007-12-14
12:53:59
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Alyssa Macey
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Marriage & Divorce