Ok. I'm going out with this girl.(by the way im a girl too). she told me that she was attracted to guys more. she already left me once for her ex boyfriend. and i was wondering if i should ask her why she doesn't leave me for a guy if she like them more and supposedly they treat her better. what should i do?
2007-12-14 12:53:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you try to hold onto this girl, it will cause you pain. She doesn't know what she wants. Just take a step back and let the relationship cool.
2007-12-14 12:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend appears to be into guys and her dealings with you was experimental.At a certain point in the not too distant future, she is going to leave, and this time, it is going to be for good.If you are into women exclusively, then I suggest you look elsewhere for a partner as this girl is not the one for you.Trying to get her to be with you is only going to cause you a lot of pain since it does not appear that she is truly into women; this is just a passing phase in her life, maybe as a result of some pain she might have being trying to deal with herself.Hence, say good bye to a romance with her and find another person.
2007-12-14 21:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your relationship may experience ups and downs..but still she is around.........don't you think she has more the feeling of attachment and dependence on you? Perhaps she really loves you but not really as a lover but more of an intimate friend, whom she can always run to in case of needs or encouragement............and if you want to live in peace and clear with her..........then confront her, ask her what she really feels towards you...but do it with kind words and in a subtle manner..no questioning or accusation and dont judge her...you will find the solution to this problem or unclear thoughts of yours...............good luck~~~
2007-12-14 21:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it.. Hopefully you can understand it better. ask questions that you would like the answers to hopefully you can better your relationship. Being able to talk is the first step.
Either that or let it cool down for a few days like he said ^^ sometimes all you need is some time to yourself.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-14 21:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Identity Withheld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is really hjow you feel then yes. If she told you this then shes not really into you. You need to get rid of her before she gets rid of you. It deosnt seem much that shes into you. Maybe your better off with osmeone who cares. Just tell her how you feel. See where it goes from there!!!! Hope everything works out =]]
2007-12-14 20:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ju. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you deserve someone who'll be committed to you. she already chose a guy over you...seems to me that she cannot be trusted. Don't settle for less. you deserve better! Find your self someone who'll make you feel like a queen...and someone hotter too!
2007-12-14 21:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋