For a single mom in her 40's to meet a good man?
Work? Bars? Emergency Room?
I am at a loss and bored as heck.....
2007-12-14 12:31:38 · 15 answers · asked by The Evolution of T. 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I work woith professionals so that's doable. One guy likes me there but he is only in his late 20's.
Community College sounds good too!
I am hioooked up with the personals but forgot my code to chekc the responses.
2007-12-14 12:36:55 · update #1
Great ideas so far. Don't know who dinged Gene but I don't get his response either!
2007-12-14 12:39:12 · update #2
Yea Computer Guy...I have pre teen 2 boys and spend a bit of time in the Emergency Room.
2007-12-14 12:40:41 · update #3
Remember this... you almost never meet a good man at a bar. The best places to meet a guy is during one of your hobbies, at work, or even a library. If you're at a club or bar.. the guy might be drunk, a fighter, unemployed, gay or getting away from his wife. Don't go looking for love, let it find you.
2007-12-14 12:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to?
I was separated (prior to divorce at 49) and I just gave up trying to meet someone .. then by mere chance I met my 'broomstick warrior' through a friend at work .. ((I wouldn't change her for a bucket of boiled bullock brains or the crown jewels)).
From experience I think it's best to let your friends find 'opportunities ' for you .. perhaps arrange dinner parties and ask them to bring 'likely conquests' (keep it relaxed and humourous) .. sounds to me like you're a bit too nice to be going to bars etc., try to avoid the 'sleazy' side of life
2007-12-14 13:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by The old man 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off you will never meet someone in a bar all those guys are looking for is ***.just go out to a club with some friends and start dancing. my mom met someone at a club and is married for 3 years now
2007-12-14 12:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by eulalio a 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I met my guy on a dating website. I was a single mum too. I got pregnant though (daft mistake at my age). We are now married and have a beautiful daughter although I feel so ancient with lack of sleep (who would have thought I would be doing the naughties all night at my age?) You have to kiss a lot of frogs but its worth it.
2007-12-14 12:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic formula...do what you enjoy and whoever you meet along the way is more likely to be a good candidate than a stranger. You can't force a good relationship...they just happen.
2007-12-14 12:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend with this problem, and he's looking for you in churches, libraries, and volunteer projects. He says bars and work doen't work. I'll mention emergency rooms to him.
2007-12-14 12:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think bars would be a good idea. When ever you see a guy you like just walk up to him and make conversation.
2007-12-14 12:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dating sites are all right. Taking a class or two at a community college is also a good place.
2007-12-14 12:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by scimitar12 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
#1. the kids come first.
#2. if you've done #1, then get a hobby. go to a bookstore. go to a concert. go to the park.
#3. DON'T go to bars. you'll look strange.
#4. go out with friends. don't "look" for guys. you'll meet the right one.
2007-12-14 12:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
eharmony.com
match.com
i think bars or places like that are too risky.. there some strange people out there in the world
2007-12-14 12:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by alexa 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋