Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

Not interested in those sleazy sex personals.

2007-12-14 11:25:03 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ Shell ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I know why its wrong in this life time.
But during when civilzations were forming such as Egypt, the son would marry the half sister in the King's favour. and so forth.
And Greece would marry their children togeter as well.
Plus there was lots of cheating and gay's then, but we probably didnt know, cause it all took off in closed doors.
But it wasnt looked as bad then. Why?

2007-12-14 11:24:51 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok. i need some advice on guys.
ok there's this guy i really like and i've been told by my friends that he sounds like he's interested. i mean

he's really sweet and we used to like work with eachother.
in the summer
and now we only talk on msn or text each other. but this is everyday.
and he sends me really sweet msgs and we have a MILLION insiders. and like at the end of convos he always trys to get me talking. like he jokes that he always tries to score goals in hockey just for me. and like he always maks me feel special. and he never judges me from things i say/do.

this sounds really dumb. but i just want an idea of what other people think.

2007-12-14 11:24:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my boyfriend broke - up with me on Tuesday my friend says it looks like he still has feelings for me is it possible??

Evidence - I went to my friend on the bus yesterday ( he goes on the same bus as my friend) And He sat behind me even though there was a whole bunch of other seats that had no people in them and he had to sit there? And i was at my locker getting some stuff out and my friends were waiting for me behind me and he walked by and they said that that he walked really slow and then was stareing at me ( i didn't actually see this cause my back was turned but this is wat my friends told me and i know its true because they don't lie)

(I still have feelings for him if it matters)

2007-12-14 11:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by penguins 2 in Singles & Dating

I darent sneek out if they caught me it would be so bad but there a party at this guys house and all my friends are going.Any ideas how to go and not be found out or away to get them to let me out for the night they dont need to know where Im going any excuse would do

2007-12-14 11:23:17 · 2 answers · asked by mia 2 in Family

im "dating" i guess you could say i guy..he doesnt go to the smae school as me and hes a year older than me. im in eighth grade and hes a freshman. he asked me to homcoming w/ him. my parents are overprotective and idk how they are going to react. how can i approach them with this question and or convince them to let me go.

2007-12-14 11:23:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do bf or husband remember there first gf or wife to whom they were saying they love them a lot at that time now they have other gf /wife or they will live them for other girl whats ur opinion

2007-12-14 11:22:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do I feel like no one likes me. I feel like my friends don't even care about me. I also feel like no girl in my school likes me. Everyone except my frineds always looks at me but never says anything. My friends wouldn't tell me hi unless I go up to them and tell them first. The reason I say that I feel like my friends dont like me is because they treat me like the minority. Most of my friends wouldnt be there when I need them. When they have a conversation I never know what they talk about because they just ignore me. When they talk I would say something three times or more and they wouldn't even know that im talking. And the girls they would talk to me and be happy with me in the begining and then they wouldn't talk to me again and just look at me barely, is like I dont exist to them any more. Even my own family treats me unfair, they dont care about what I have to say, they always accuse me of stuff I dont do, and never support me. Is it just me or do people dislike me???

2007-12-14 11:20:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 11:18:23 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been married 4 2 yrs, ppl say we r a well matched couple........my hsband doesnt knw that i knw the password of his email account.......i check it once in a while coz jus 2 months after our wedding i found him chatting 2 annonmyous girls.........we had a big arguement, i deleted all his contacts.....he apologised saying there's nothin 2 worry bout, he was jus making a fool of ppl. He promised he wont do it again n i thought i was the end.........but 2day visited his account after long time n was surprised 2 see loads of new email contacts........all girls..........few msgs.......a girl has also sent her photos n a bit mention of dirty stuff. He normally deletes his sent msgs, so cant see those ones.
Now i m in dilemma........dnt knw wat 2 do.........he is nice n cool...........goes straightway 2 work n comes home on time everyday.........there is no other reason 2 suspect him.......do u think he is cheater? do most of the married men do this jus 4 fun? plz

2007-12-14 11:18:21 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Divine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has been looking at lesbian oriented sites on the web while I'm away. Is she bi? or just into what she sees? I've asked her but she denies it. How should I approach her or ask her about the sites?

2007-12-14 11:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by Vinny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but now i feel guilty. What do i do.

2007-12-14 11:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I tell him my feelings about something that bothers me that he might do for example I dont agree with my boyfriend going to strip clubs - i've heard it all about how boys will be boys etc and how many women dont care if their bfs go to those places but i do - i think its very disrespectful and i dont like the idea of him coming home to me after that to take it out on me like many other women - puke! anyway, so he promised me he wouldnt do such a thing cuz he knows it'll hurt me but i found out that he went many times with his buddies and told me he was going to the bar instead.

I feel like its like this with everything, if he puts his mind to something he'll find a way to do it even if its thru lying and that hurts me and we talk about this stuff so much and he promises me the world and doesnt do any of it.

if this is the case and he doesnt love me or whatever why does he still stay with me and say i love you?

5 yr relationship by the way

2007-12-14 11:16:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

left you for someone else ..but keep having you watch to see what your up to.. my bf has that promblem.. to make matter worse they have kids together.. no they never married.. she kick him out christmas eve.. (2 yrs before we met.. i mention this so you would know i had nothing to due with the break up)and moved some one else in new year eve.. but keeps taps on him.. has him watch through friend.. now we have moved to a new state.. so it is not happening.. just wonder what you make of this..also she wanted to marry him. and he did not... now she is married and still acting this way

2007-12-14 11:16:00 · 3 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

im 13 and guys what do u usually look for in a girl, besides hollister crap? [one answer only, plz, girls aren't miracle workers designed for only your interests]

2007-12-14 11:15:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for 5 years with this guy i meet on yahoo messenger and i am very much in love with him however we havent really managed to meet up simply because we live 7 seas apart! i wonder if anyone else is in the same situation and wants to share how they feel?and how do u manage to keep it going?doesnt the distance sometimes seem endless?and if so how should one manage?

2007-12-14 11:14:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She trying to get my attention?
she hugged this guy infront of me and i noticed she glanced at me while doing so is this a good thing. She ignores me all the time were not even friends yet she is 18
she has called me cute before and sometimes when i walk past her she will look me in the eyes

i ignore her to b/c im nervous


im skepitical to aproach her b/c she is the party typeShe is

2007-12-14 11:13:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me understand the mentality of a woman who catches her boyfriend, or husband in the act of cheating, and then fights with the woman???
Surely its the man who needs the knock on his head ?
You know he probably lied to the woman and said he was single.
Why do these women fight with each other over man, to begin with ????
(Jerry Springer trashy show/I just happened to see this !)

2007-12-14 11:12:18 · 27 answers · asked by jalady 6 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my husband for almost 9 years married for almost 3. i was 16 when we started dating. he was an amazing person with some bad habbits with weed. through the years we had 2 kids who are the love of my life. for the last 2 years my husband is easily agitated and we have been up and down over the weed. i want him to cut back due to i found out he was smoking at home alone with the kids and 24-7. i blew i love him and that is why i am still here i have been called names, told this is my fault, cheated on one time (but he says it was partially my fault bcuz im to good for him and he felt threatend) he yells at our kids like its nothing and says really mean things to them. now i know my husband is not this person- angry and depressed. but how long can i be the strong wife to make my family the happy family again. i feel that i cant and i hv nothing left. his family thinks i should stay strong but he is making me and my kids weeker and weaker by the day. what do i do

2007-12-14 11:12:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need to know!!

2007-12-14 11:11:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this guy since I was 14 and he was about 16 or 17. Our friendship of course was online, through distance. As the years went on and we grew up we continued to talk. We became close. Sharing dreams, goals, hopes, experiences, definitely relationship problems. When ever we were single there was always a flirtation between us. But never anything serious.

Here we are now 20 and 23. We've lived decent lives with interesting stories to tell. We're a bit more grown up and mature. Still going through with the struggles of life.

Recently I was talking to him online. He has a difficult day with his job and school so days are stressful for him. When talking out of no where he says he wants me to come visit and soon. All the years weve known each other we have yet to meet. I was excited because Id love to meet him finally.

Since then hes talked about just running away together, livinging happily ever after. Even said 'I want to love you' at a random moment.

2007-12-14 11:11:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in 10th grade, and there is this girl that i just started talking to this year. I really like her, but she is shy. She doesn't go out and show people she likes them. I just got to being where i am a decent friend, but i don't want to ruin the friendship by asking her. I have a guess that she likes me, cause she'll look at me and she smiles no matter how dumb what i say is. She also does this thing where she will wave at me if come up to her by herself, and she never does that to anyone else. Before we were friends, i started out trying to be her friend first, but now i think she might think that i only like her as a friend.
The question is how can i tell if she likes me, and what would be a nice way to tell a girl thats a little shyer that i like her.

2007-12-14 11:08:24 · 10 answers · asked by Texas Brandon 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend just got married.We have been best friends scince we were 11yrs old ( now 24).we have been like brothers and always did everything together,and i covered him countless times,but for whatever reason,he decided not to have me stand up at his wedding (i was invited though and i did go) but instead he had my younger brother and his AA sponser (who he had known for about 1yr now)be groomsmen along w/ his brother(understandable). maybe we aren't as good of friends as i had thought.I feel really hurt by his decision and i really don't think any explanation he could give would make things alright( i mean i'm not in any of the pictures).i'd hate to see this ruin a otherwise good friendship.has anyone had something simmilar happen to them?any suggestions on what to do?thanks.(p.s. mostly just venting)

2007-12-14 11:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by sean k 1 in Friends

We are getting married in March and because of financial reasons we can't have a traditional reception.....but we want to serve a little something after the ceremony.....the ceremony is at 1:00pm....any ideas?

2007-12-14 11:04:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

but, those who only do the the right thing some of the time but for the most part don't do the right that is expected of them thing still get the better life? and get away with it?

2007-12-14 11:03:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant drive yet, and im NOT GETTING my parents to drive me and my date around.so how do i date girls with out being able to pick them up.this has made me not date anyone in the past cause im supposed pick them up in my car.but i cant.any solutions?

2007-12-14 11:02:29 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's what she said:

"It would be amazing to have a guy just concentrate on you.
When guys have to many friends they tend to look at other girls even though they have a girlfriend. Just the boys will go out and do whatever no matter what.
I think it would be nice to have a guy that is always looking at you and no one else."

2007-12-14 11:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ex had R/O for D/V and vacated in settlement, it was bogus to begin with, only a ploy so I could not recieve any spousal support., (this is in Cal.) now that R/O is vacated can I go back to cour. Ex makes 3-4 times my salary we were married 20 years

2007-12-14 11:01:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever seen a guy who had 10 inches or more? if so, was that exciting for you and why?

2007-12-14 10:58:38 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are in the process of a ugly divorce. Our 5 kids want to get us christmas gifts,how should we handle it? Who should buy the gifts?? Should I buy a gift for my ex?? Should he buy me a gift??

2007-12-14 10:55:48 · 12 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2 in Marriage & Divorce