Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

My mom thinks that I care about anything. She thinks that these material things can bring me happiness. How could you deal with this behavior?

2007-12-14 09:42:46 · 17 answers · asked by Abdulla S 1 in Family

I just want to take things slow so I don't screw it up. Okay, so I really like this guy who works with me, and I think he might like me too. We flirt all the time, but I don't know how serious it is on his part. But I don't act that serious either . . . I don't/didn't want him to think that I like him yet. But ANYWAYS me and this other girl I work with who is my closest friend at work decided to pick secret crushes out at work. Well, I obviously didn't say the guy that I really like, but someone else who is nice but not my type. Well, my friend thought it would be funny to tell everyone we work with who my "secret crush" is, and now everyone thinks that I like this guy and they tease me all the time about it, and now the guy that I really do like is acting completely different toward me. :-( I still don't want him to think that I do like him yet, but I don't want him to think that I don't, either! I just want things to back the way they were. Please tell me what I should do :-)

2007-12-14 09:42:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

out of curiosity what clothes size (say if it's american/british) is "fat" to you?

2007-12-14 09:41:24 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you met a woman on an internet dating site, and she came to visit you from another state, Would you allow her to stay in your home?

2007-12-14 09:38:57 · 17 answers · asked by suzyq07033 2 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is really pretty and has a nice *** and good personality but no boobs....would u still date her?

2007-12-14 09:38:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if your boyfriend wants to get physical with you in your relationship? And by "physical", I mean hugging, holding hands, etc (NO sex or anything like that). And if you are a guy and want to answer this question, if you (or if you have had) a girlfriend and you want to start a little bit of physical stuff(like i said before, no sex) what signs would you give her to let her know? The reason I'm asking this is because I have a boyfriend and lately, I've been feeling extra close to him and sometimes he might put his hand on my shoulder or put BOTH hands on MY shoulders or just sit/stand REALLY close to me and sometimes i feel like he's almost about to hug me. Does this mean anything? I mean, even when he and I talk side by side, it's like our faces are kind of close sort of, and I'm just wondering if this means anything???

2007-12-14 09:35:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question: Do I have even the most MINISCULE chance with him again??? If so... please tell me exactly what to do... and if not... please tell him how to stop going crazy and let it go.

~Here's my story~Me and my bf have been together for 2 months. I have really been falling in love w/ him. Last w/e we spent together and everything was great. He was really sweet and went out of his way to bring me a rose and make me breakfast among other things. He left my house frustrated on Sunday b/c he left later than he planned and missed a chance to work on an assignment w/ a friend (he's in college). We got in a bit of an argument on Sunday night on the phone as we were both a bit grouchy. He was upset I was acting needy. We both said we didn't want to fight and made up. The next morning I sent him a text saying sorry and explained why I acted like that and I wouldn't do it again. He didn't call or text me all day (which he has never done). PLEASE KEEP READING BELOW...

2007-12-14 09:33:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do you have other preferences?

2007-12-14 09:32:59 · 38 answers · asked by ............ 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-14 09:32:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i always feel like saying thank you makes it seem like you KNOW you're gorgeous. but i know it's annoying whenever people say "noo i'm not" and i don't want to say "aw, really?" because then it feels like i'm asking for them to say it again.
what's the appropriate response to this compliment?

2007-12-14 09:31:25 · 4 answers · asked by GIRL 6 in Singles & Dating

I don't want that response, I want "sure". Do I seem that i'm bad looking

i'm 17, 5'9, athletic build, brown hair (cut just below the ears), tan, brown-orange eyes. Pretty good biceps and calves from sports and a 6-pack from my nightly situps.

I also play football (both american and non - american), and wakeboarding.

Why don't they say yes?? They haven't even gotten to know me yet...

2007-12-14 09:30:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm babysitting for my little cousin tonight and i dont want to keep him borred.
-He is 9 or 10
-Boy
-Likes fun stuff
-He can't really sit still (so nothing like movies)

2007-12-14 09:30:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im younger than 16 but older than 11. my boyfriend asked me after school if i wanted to go ovr his house and i didnt want t say no infront of all our friends bcuz then they wouldnt tlk to me so i said yes and we walked to his house. and then he asked me if i wanted to have sex wih him and i said yes bcuz he would laugh at me and tell all my friends and his friends if i said no so he took all my clothes off and told me to get in his bed and i did. it felt like realy unfomtable and i felt sick when he got on top of me he was so heavy. he didnt have clothes on and he started touching me and rubbing me and i wanted to scream and then he went inside of me and i screamed. it hurt really bad i couldnt get him off of me and he didnt stop tho and no one was home except us and his older brother. and wen his older brother came in he was just laughing at me cuz i couldnt push nick off of me. who do i tell??!!! if i tell someone tho all my friends wont tlk 2 me

2007-12-14 09:30:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in because my wife would not be happy if i was out spending our money.....lol

2007-12-14 09:29:22 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm goin out with a guy, Kyle, and hes cute to me at least, but my friends are all like EWW but I love him and hes easy to takl to should I listen to them? They should just get over us right?

2007-12-14 09:27:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. You use sex as a weapon to get what you want... why honor a weapon?

2. You ask use to have sex with just you but you aren't good at it and you don't care to be good at it.

3. Not only are you not good at it but you rarely have it?

Is it just that you need someone to sap emotions off of and pay your bills... is that why you get married? Because for most of you, you are sexually selfish and useless...

To those few out there that do care, do initiate and try like hell to please your man... I give you all the adoration in the world... you are a rare thing.

2007-12-14 09:23:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 09:21:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok it was totally accidental and embrassing.
me and my bf and his parents went to the movies together as a double date so his parents could get to know me, the dinner and a movie deal. my bf and his day went into the movie to find us seats and me and my bfs mom went to the bathroom together. so she said that she was going to go get some popcorn and so in to the movie because i didn't want any thing. my bf and his dad looks a lot a like the only difference is that my bf has is mom's eyes and is the cuter younger version of his dad. anyways i came up from behind and it was dark so i really couldn't see. but i spot my bf's dad who i thought for sure was my bf and i sat behind him and leaned over very close to his ear and said, i am so f***ing horny,you know i always wanted my first time to be in the movie theater,straddling you in one of these chairs, with everyone watching us. then i laughed, and asked would you f*** me here Eric? that's when he turned his head and said would you mind keeping it down and that's when i realized it was his dad that's when my bf and his mom showed up with the snacks i was so embarrassed.

should i tell my bf what happened, how should i deal with my bf's dad.

2007-12-14 09:21:15 · 85 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to scare guys off. Thank you.

2007-12-14 09:20:52 · 5 answers · asked by Pookie 2 in Singles & Dating

How many of you put many of you put your friends first before your girlfriend?

2007-12-14 09:20:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a family member. He works 7days a week 8:00am-12:00am. I plan to take him back to court because I feel what's the point of visitation if he's not spending time with the child.

2007-12-14 09:20:33 · 8 answers · asked by southern girl 2 in Family

We aranged to me meet with eachother so naturaly I planed the date out, booked a restourant and cinema tickets, rented a movie out and pretty much planed it down to the last minute. Then he says he can't come and was intimidated by the fact I'd planed it so much. Is this typical of most men?

I don't know whether I should tell him how disapointed I am in him, I'm 21 and he's 38, I realy would have expected more bravery from a man of his age. He says the next time we can meet up is after new years, I'm not sure if I can wait that long :(

2007-12-14 09:19:13 · 11 answers · asked by Sophia 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy named Jacob, and I'm pretty sure he has no idea i exist. He is quiet, and he has drama right before I do. He has black hair, and he is japanese, and I used to live in japan. All of his friends tell me i should just go up to him and say hey but i get shy and i need another alternative. i dont know what to do. i changed my complete style to get his attention. i want to just go up to him and be like hii i'm brianna. but omgggg i cant do that. i have never met a guy that has given my butterflies, but he does, major major butterflies. i will be walking down the hall and he looks at me but i dont know what he is thinking about me, and when i do make eye contact with him i get butterflies and i bite the edge of my lip and look down at the ground. i dont know what to do to get his attention without totally embarrassing myself. he came into my drama class and he was talking to me and i tightened up and i couldnt answer him, so please help me, cause i cant even talk to him

2007-12-14 09:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok... now that i have your attention, can you sell people on eBay???

2007-12-14 09:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im in gr 9 and i have a crush on 3 guys at the same time. oh geez. they all give me the tingly feeling in my stomach! you know.. but for sure NONE of them i can go out wiht. but just wna to see which one you girls would pick

1- hes in gr. 10 he has a gf.. but he keeps touching my hand and flirting with me and walking me home. and he also gives me a hug when im home.. its SO sweet. hes like a cute pretty boy with LOTS of style. with him its just so romantic and sweet, i feel really comfortable around him

2- hes in my grade. hes like the atheletic type theworst thing is that hes one of my bff's EX and she still has feelings for him.. but he'll always call me at night and we talk till like 2 in the morning. and hes soo funny. she seriously CRACKS me up. with him ill feel so happy and complete

3- hes in grade 11 one of my sisters friends. and i go to work with him like bus with him and stuff. and well always use a sharpie marker to write that weve been there. and hes gives me a ..

2007-12-14 09:17:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, she's 19 and she's from Uruguay.. and i am 20 (from another country)... Me myself have never dated any girl !!! i have no IDEA and I mean it NOO IDEA about dating and girls!
What should I do ? i dont really know ... all i know is that the beach is about 10 minutes walking from here so i am thinking of taking a long walk on the beach on the first date ... but still dont know if it is good or not ? ... she also loves pizza :) so i also dont know if we should go for it before going to the beach or WHAT!? :d

and the other funny part of this question is Should I kiss her now on the first date or what ?!!!.... on the cheek or lips! :D

please answer me , and i know how funny and idiot i am so you dont need to tell me anymore! ::))

2007-12-14 09:17:10 · 3 answers · asked by Alian 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls.... do you.... guys what do you think about...


not wearing underwear... I only wear it sometimes.... it just think it's more comfortable w/o especially when I wear windpants or something....

What about ya'll girls??

Guys is this gross???

* oh and it's not like I'm showing it off or anything... no one really knows cept my bffs... I just don't wear it

2007-12-14 09:15:23 · 32 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

i pay child support to her through the state of Wash.When I get any corespondance from him, it's addresed using the step father's last name. pictures too. It's like she's trying to erase me. but they still accept the money.

2007-12-14 09:13:44 · 22 answers · asked by DAVE L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel realy bad becaus thers this guy that my frend likes & he found out & then said that it didnt matter.Also the guy that i like doesnt seem to care that i like him & its kinda killing me cuz i REALLY like him. Now theres this guy that im pretty sure likes me, but the thing is i just dont like him like that & i...i really just dont care. its not like it changed anything. I guess its hard to care unless u really know how much they like you. I feel bad because i know that the person u like not caring hurts really bad, and i never thought that i could hurt someone like that, but now i kinda see how the ppl my friend & i like arent trying to hurt us its just how u feel. it STILL hurts cuz honestly the guy i like should feel mor than that after all the times we'v had(yea i realize that sounded corny) & i STILL feel bad about the guy who probably likes me cuz i dont WANT to hurt anybody like that but i cant help it. +with him i just met him at the beginning of this yr so he cant blame me.

2007-12-14 09:13:42 · 3 answers · asked by i 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy tries to touch my boobs. But I reallllyyy like him =\

Like we talk alot. He flirts alot too =] But sometimes he tries to touch my boobs.Not grab them but just touch.And I dont even have big boobs. lol

Does he like me? Or does he just want to get in my pants? Also,,when he's around me his whole personality changes. He gets really shy and serious. Whyy? But today at lunch we sat at the same table...and I sat in front of him..He didn't flirt at all. He just stared some. Does he like me?

2007-12-14 09:12:15 · 18 answers · asked by iLoveHim70 1 in Singles & Dating