i talked dirty to my bfs dad?

Question

ok it was totally accidental and embrassing.
me and my bf and his parents went to the movies together as a double date so his parents could get to know me, the dinner and a movie deal. my bf and his day went into the movie to find us seats and me and my bfs mom went to the bathroom together. so she said that she was going to go get some popcorn and so in to the movie because i didn't want any thing. my bf and his dad looks a lot a like the only difference is that my bf has is mom's eyes and is the cuter younger version of his dad. anyways i came up from behind and it was dark so i really couldn't see. but i spot my bf's dad who i thought for sure was my bf and i sat behind him and leaned over very close to his ear and said, i am so f***ing horny,you know i always wanted my first time to be in the movie theater,straddling you in one of these chairs, with everyone watching us. then i laughed, and asked would you f*** me here Eric? that's when he turned his head and said would you mind keeping it down and that's when i realized it was his dad that's when my bf and his mom showed up with the snacks i was so embarrassed.

should i tell my bf what happened, how should i deal with my bf's dad.

Answer 1

I almost find your story unbelievable, but if it is true, you better tell you bf and apologize to his dad. I mean wow. I can't see how you could make that big of a mistake

Answer 2

Oh my, what an ordeal. I don't want to tell you what to do, but if i were you though I would tell my boyfriend (is he the type that has a sense of humor?). Be tactful about this, start off by saying something like "you're going to think this is so embarassing..." etc. Imagine how much worst it would be if he had to hear it from his dad (which I imagine, he wouldn't tell your bf, but you never know. And IF the dad does tell, he may tell it in a way that you wouldn't have wanted.)

Also... you know you'll have to run into his dad again if you keep seeing your boyfriend so I would apologize to the dad, as embarassing as that task would be! Once you apologize, you can both look ahead of the incident and move on, instead of letting that hang over the two of you everytime you see him.

Answer 3

Bwahahahahahaha! That's even funnier than my most embarrassing moment.

This is one of those things that you just have to live down. You'll cringe every time you think about it for a few years, then one day you'll laugh and it will be OK. Your BF's dad knows you thought it was his son, unless his name's Eric too, and was probably mildly stoked (in a kind of embarrassed way) that you mistook him for his son.

As for whether you should tell your BF, if you think he'd be really angry or jealous, he's probably not a good find. If not, you could tell him in a general way what happened - "I'm so embarrassed. Your dad was sitting on the couch and I thought it was you from the back, and said some stuff that I shouldn't have." Or something like that.

Answer 4

That has got to be the most embarrassing, horrific story I have ever heard! You must feel so sick. His father must be looking at you with brand new eyes. If you believe his father will say something to your BF, then you need to tell him. The father may even share that bit of juicy talk with his wife as a laugh. Then again, he might have an idea just how mortified you must feel, and he might very well keep it to himself. WOW! I really feel for you with this one. I would have wanted to die if that was me. Even still, this too will pass. Talk to your BF. Feel him out to see how he might take the news of what happened. I wish you a lot of luck. Must be really difficult to look the father in the eyes at this point. Maybe he thought it was funny, though. On some level, I'm sure it is. ';-)

Answer 5

Well that is really bad.... lol but yes tell your bf, maybe he can talk to his dad if you want him to, but I would if you don't want to do it in person then at least in a letter, apologize to him and tell him you obviously mistook him for his son, tell him your embarrassed and try really hard in the furture to suck up a little... keep in mind depending on the parents they may find that to be inappropriate anyway so I'd take it with caution but I wouldn't let it sit otherwise you'll always feel uncomfortable....

Answer 6

Oh my Gosh that had to be mortifying!
Honestly, I would not tell your boyfriend, that could cause a lot of discomfort between the two of you. Not to mention your boy friend could freak out and also tell his Mom. You don't want to create even more awkwardness within the family! I would just try to forget about it and possibly even apologize to the father if you get a moment to speak with him.
Hopefully it can be forgotten quickly and never spoken of again!

Answer 7

Holy Crap thats Terrible!

Yes you should tell your boyfriend but stress that it was an accident and laugh while you're telling him.

But before you do that - confront his dad and tell him that it was an accident and that it will never happen again. And after that - just pretend it never happened and NEVER talk about it again.

As for his mother tell her yourself. It shows great courage and that you are indeed very sorry. Tell her you really like Eric and that you hope that she doesn't see you as any less a person.

Good luck.

Answer 8

first of all that's so gay having it in a movie theater you perv and second i cant believe you said that his dads gonna be so pissed at you!
k that was my friend it was an mistake and plus youre BF probobly allready knows i mean either youre BF's dad did the same thing when he was a flirt, youre BF's dad is just totally cool with the fact that you hit on him, or youre Bfs dad told youre bf and he is so in love with you that he doesn't care

Answer 9

omg, how embarrassing for you. Yes you should say something to your boyfriend and if i were you I'd apologize to daddy. I don't know if i could ever look him in the eye again and would feel very uncomfortable around him. Good luck honey and the next time you want to talk dirty to your boyfriend make sure it's really him.

Answer 10

Apologize to ur bf father and find a right time to explain to your bf. I'm sure he will understand. So, u learn a lesson right?Just make sure you won't do it again.

Answer 11

Tell the truth- you didn't say "will you f me here ERIC" did you?!?! You think that the father thinks it was about him, don't you? Dont worry- he probably doesn.t You should tell the bf. It's going to take a while to get over the embarassment!