im younger than 16 but older than 11. my boyfriend asked me after school if i wanted to go ovr his house and i didnt want t say no infront of all our friends bcuz then they wouldnt tlk to me so i said yes and we walked to his house. and then he asked me if i wanted to have sex wih him and i said yes bcuz he would laugh at me and tell all my friends and his friends if i said no so he took all my clothes off and told me to get in his bed and i did. it felt like realy unfomtable and i felt sick when he got on top of me he was so heavy. he didnt have clothes on and he started touching me and rubbing me and i wanted to scream and then he went inside of me and i screamed. it hurt really bad i couldnt get him off of me and he didnt stop tho and no one was home except us and his older brother. and wen his older brother came in he was just laughing at me cuz i couldnt push nick off of me. who do i tell??!!! if i tell someone tho all my friends wont tlk 2 me
2007-12-14 09:30:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i called my mom and told her cuz she was away...shes coming home now
thank you so much for all the help
2007-12-14 09:41:28 · update #1
She DID say no. Screaming and trying to push him off is resistance. If she screamed in a manor that the brother came into the room to see what was wrong, she was protesting. Please talk to your parents, a pastor, doctor or teacher. Do you have an older sister or brother who will help?
The response from the brother makes it sound like this was not unusual. Could it have happened before? To someone else? Will it happen again?
At the very least, you need to be tested for STDs and pregnancy.
Counseling, support from you loved ones and legal action are also in order.
A woman can say no whenever she wants, not just at the beginning of a situation.
Friends will come and go. This is a hard way to learn who really cares about you. My thoughts are with you.
2007-12-14 09:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by MS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents or school counselor so the police can be called and the law can take its course. You may be infected with a disease at the very least. The animal should be locked up until it is time for him to draw social security.
2007-12-14 09:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question that needs to be asked is if you told him no. If you told him no and he did not stop, then yes he raped you. You should not be concerned with whether your friends or his will talk to you. If they were really your friends, they would stand by and support you. NOW IF YOU SAID NO, YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS AND CALL THE POLICE. YOU PARENTS MAYBE UPSET WITH YOU AT FIRST, BUT THEY WILL BE BY YOUR SIDE THE WHOLE STEP OF THE WAY. SO TELL THEM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW LONG AGO WAS THIS??????????
2007-12-14 09:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hotgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. Or the school counselor. Someone needs to know. Why won't your friends talk to you? They should like you more than him if they're your friends. They should support you and understand. You need to get this guy in some legal trouble.
2007-12-14 09:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to tell a trusted adult. Maybe a teacher or a counselor at school. Maybe even your parents. This is not right. No one asks for this to happen, so you need to say something. How old is your boyfriend?
2007-12-14 09:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound to insensitive but you could have said no even though people would have laughed. To me this isn't rape as you never said no and could have. You should talk to a parent in case of pregnancy.
2007-12-14 09:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by ziggy_brat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get off yahoo answers,find your parents and tell them so that they can get that scumbag in court.
you shouldn't have to go through this,guys like that sicken me and hearing stories like this piss me off cuz it's all about guys thinking they are superior than us women and can use us for whatever they want.
be strong tell someone soon.
2007-12-14 09:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by Helen of Troy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry if they act like that they are not your friends --- call the police your school counsellor your parents everyone you can think and make the twerp realise he is responsible for his actions --- by not doing anything he will probably do it again (and again) ---- best wishes and hugs
2007-12-14 09:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better go to an adult right now, or you will never forgive yourself.
2007-12-14 09:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by cfb193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get HELP now. thats awful. if you get pregnant you will have to tell then.
2007-12-14 09:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by mlegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋