i feel realy bad becaus thers this guy that my frend likes & he found out & then said that it didnt matter.Also the guy that i like doesnt seem to care that i like him & its kinda killing me cuz i REALLY like him. Now theres this guy that im pretty sure likes me, but the thing is i just dont like him like that & i...i really just dont care. its not like it changed anything. I guess its hard to care unless u really know how much they like you. I feel bad because i know that the person u like not caring hurts really bad, and i never thought that i could hurt someone like that, but now i kinda see how the ppl my friend & i like arent trying to hurt us its just how u feel. it STILL hurts cuz honestly the guy i like should feel mor than that after all the times we'v had(yea i realize that sounded corny) & i STILL feel bad about the guy who probably likes me cuz i dont WANT to hurt anybody like that but i cant help it. +with him i just met him at the beginning of this yr so he cant blame me.
2007-12-14 09:13:42 · 3 answers · asked by i 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right, you feel how you feel, and there's nothing you can really do about that. And if that's true for you, it's true for everybody. But you've also learned an important lesson in the process...I'm proud of you, and you should be proud of you, too. Understanding this issue from both sides may not change the outcome; you still feel how you feel, but you're aware of the emotional vulnerability the other person feels, so you will always employ sensitivity when letting a person down...as gently as the situation will allow. Good for you.
2007-12-14 09:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's this guy nikita? lol
Ya I get what you're saying, the guy I liked didn't seem to care ,even if he acted like he did before. Just don't say anything to the guy that likes you about that stuff, and if he does ask you out, just say sorry, but you would like to decline or something like that, something nice, but make sure it seems like you care.
2007-12-15 08:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just the way of it. I think it's a wonderful gift to be able to put yourself in another's shoes, and see things how they might see them.
Just remember it's ok to feel for him. It's not ok for you to feel guilty. It's not your fault. It's just the way things turn out sometimes.
2007-12-14 17:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋