If you met a woman on an internet dating site, and she came to visit you from another state, Would you allow her to stay in your home?
2007-12-14 09:38:57 · 17 answers · asked by suzyq07033 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Assuming she was comfortable with that, yes, but I wouldn't expect that.
2007-12-14 09:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I made all first dates with the same rule: Gotta have an escape plan.
Every first date was either wine after work, or lunch in a public place. There's no reason to assume that someone portrays themselves truthful, so it has to be verified.
One date lasted 8 minutes (she was a dog) One date lasted 15 minutes (She was totally weird). My last date lasted 517 days. I found a keeper. But even she and I took it slow at first.
Good luck. Plan your out. If there's mutual interest, you'll know.
2007-12-14 17:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long we have been talking. If its over six months I would say yes. If not I probably would not want her to visit that soon. If she insisted then I would say you could come but you would have to get a hotel room. If things worked out then she might not be staying there but it would be good to have a back up plan.
2007-12-14 17:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by G Money 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes but the problem is that any internet dating site contains 300 women and 3000 men.
so good luck getting your email threw when 600 other guys are too!! lol
2007-12-14 17:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by kvnrose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long we had been involved on line. How long we emailed back and forth. I guess how much we knew about each other! How often we chatted on the phone. Whether or not she had a criminal record! Then, if everything checked out, yes!
2007-12-14 17:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by johnnyb6231 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. If I invited her from another state, I think that would have been expected.
If she showed up on her own, then there is always the Motel 6.
2007-12-14 17:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by killintimer 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why not?
I will definitely allow her to stay at my home, even my bedroom but we will not sleep on the same bed!
2007-12-14 17:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends. How long have we been communicating? I would have to feel comfortable with her and know her pretty well. But yeah, I probably would if I trusted her.
2007-12-14 17:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by Phillip M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she were hot and I had good vibes that she was not a psycho or a con woman ... hell yea.
2007-12-14 17:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I wouldn't feel safe doing that....
2007-12-14 17:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋