Granted this was long distance and we were both involved with other people...Got over it, moved on...Now he is back...But I say, you leave when things get complicated, don't bother coming back, life is complicated, and so is love...U don't have the balls for it, I don't want you for my man...who agrees? and who doesn't? No more chances...
2007-12-14 19:42:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree ! There are too many fish in the sea out there. A relationship should not be hard work, just worked at....and anything very difficult is not meant to be, unless of course you love the pain ! Break free, breathe, get to know yourself, and one day at a time the pain will lessen and you will wonder why in the hell you ever hung on so tight and wasted precious time in your life ! God's speed and merry Christmas !
2007-12-14 19:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Erie Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the going gets tough....I agree with you. You want a strong man who will not buckle or run at the first sign of danger. "Too complicated.." is just a lame excuse to get out. Let him live with regret for the rest of his life.
2007-12-14 20:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important part of your question is "we were both involved with other people." This would not have happened if you had a truly loving relationship with commitment so you are both responsible. It sounds like he wants to take up where you left off. If you like him better than anyone else that you have dated since it's up to you because you were also part of the problem.
2007-12-14 19:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Gerald G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are still with other man, pl don't loose him, leave the first one. When the mirror is borken, we can't join them. Even if we join them, there will be a separation line. U can say him, he missed the flight! (OR)
If u are alone and feeling, u can warn, forgive and take him for giving a chance to realise his mistake-afterall we are human being having tendency to make mistakes.GOD forgives
2007-12-14 19:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by m_mohan60 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...ok, so you've made up your mind about not giving him any more chances.
Can you be the stronger person here and stand by your decision?
Time to move on and leave the past behind.
2007-12-14 19:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, why did he give up on you before just to come running back. sounds like a loser you can do better you go girl
2007-12-14 19:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by spartansparta09 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree...theres actually very little thats complicated in marriage...and if you have to make it that way, it's not for you.
2007-12-14 19:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it too..
I'd get out while you can.. Dont worry, you'll get over him..
If he's this way when you are not married.. GEEZ!.. think of what he'd be like as a husband..
Move on.. tell him to get a life and commit to someone else, just not you this time...
2007-12-14 19:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mintee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree completely.
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2007-12-14 19:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree - it just shows that he won't be a guy who'll settle down easily.
2007-12-14 20:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋