Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

i already know he likes me
any idea to get him to like me more
and how can i tell him i like him by looking at him?

2007-12-14 18:44:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since my son was born which he just turned 1 in Novemeber I feel so bad but dont know how to call her what to say or what to do ?? We used to be close but just drifted apart over the last 4 to 5 years Ive been thinking about her and I just cant believe it The doctor kept saying nothing showed on her lab results until recently now shes really sick What should I say or do ???

2007-12-14 18:41:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alright so I'm slender but I am not anorexic or anything like that. I'm about 5'4'' and fit so help here so that I know I Have desirable goods besides everything else.

2007-12-14 18:40:48 · 26 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a teacher that I took a class 3 years ago and he used to make jokes about how he was unlucky in love. He was single at the time. His jokes were really funny though. He became engaged 9 months ago. However, last week he hosted an event at school and he was STILL making jokes about him being unlucky in love. What does it mean?

Thank you so much just for answering.

Fine Print: I will not accept insults or stupid remarks like "why do you care". I am sure you will understand. I am just asking a question.

2007-12-14 18:40:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i never know how to act in this situation... i always get really uncomfortable, like if i act normally, they might think im into them.. and i dont want to be mean either... i just dont know what to do?
any advise??

2007-12-14 18:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do married people (NOT DIVORCED People) think about child support?

2007-12-14 18:27:30 · 12 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been 3 yrs and one wife later for him, but he still tries to contact me. I had to change my email which I've had since 1998, because he wouldn't stop emailing me and yes, I could have blocked him but he has those stupid Google searches programmed for my email addy so anytime I would join a public forum he would find them...After I changed my email he found me on myspace and sent me a really nasty email about how he hated me, but then the very next day he sent me one apologizing, all to which I didn't not respond (I did set my MYSPACE to private so he couldn't see what was going on with me.) It's been about a month or so since I heard from him, but then tonight out of no where he sends me this TEXT telling me he had moved and wished me an early happy bday. I just want him to leave me alone...I've begged and begged and I don't know what else to do. Any advice?
26 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer.

2007-12-14 18:16:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 18:05:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i pay what the court says i should pay, she tells me that they still cant make it. should i pay more?

or is what im giving enough

my kids are feed, have clothes, and toy so the kids dont go with out

2007-12-14 18:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. So. I've been chatting it up with a guy that I knew in college. We never really talked before or even showed any interest in one another.

The situation basically consisted of him requesting me on myspace. After I added him, he didn't really initiate anything, so I finally did. Well, time passes and we message each other back and forth...blah blah...He gives me his number first. I return the favor, but he calls me first. To make a long story short, we've only talked maybe twice. The first time was maybe 5 min., he wanted to confirm plans for dinner. I said cool. But, we didn't go out b/c it rained. I don't think we rescheduled, but then we have this amazing convo on the phone that lasted for like 2-3hrs and that was the last of the phone talk. Communication betwn us is usually text, which is cool, but at my age it's annoying and redundant.

The dilemma:

One night we were texing each other, at least one or two words back and forth. I texted him first, b/c I will admit, I'm not the most persitent person when it comes to relationships. I was thinking along the lines of SHOW THIS GUY YOU'RE INTERESTED. B/c I know me and I can send off some bad vibes without trying! but the thing that pissed me off was when he and I were texting each other back and forth, I felt as if he didn't really feel like being bothered. I felt that energy ...and then to top it off, he left a text convo WIDE OPEN, so I felt as if he brushed me off! I know some people have a hard time saying goodbye or ending a convo, BUT please say somethin! I mean, I felt really dumb and he didn't bother to text me back until the Dec 6th. The last text was on the 30th of Nov!

This is what WIDE OPEN looks like:

the guy: you should get out
me: no, i shouldn't

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Now, there was previous texting before these last two, but this right here was like...OKAY?!?

So, I'm pretty sure you can guess what I've been doing. Yes, I've been punishing him. The poor guy has texted me, called me and I have not responded and I don't know why. He's cool and I doubt if he's doing this diliberately. He doesn't really know me like that, excpet for what little he has to go by on the phone. I just don't know how to redeem the situation without coming off as bitter or mean. I wanna know. Who's right. Who's wrong. And how do I redeem myself?????? Its been two weeks. I feel so ashamed bc regardless, that's not what type of person I am. I hate playing games. I guess I'm just protecting my feelings.

2007-12-14 17:59:35 · 10 answers · asked by :::cognac & cuban cigars::: 4 in Singles & Dating

do guys get anything out of fingering a girl
like does it turn them on to see the girls reactions

2007-12-14 17:58:33 · 1 answers · asked by yeahhhh 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I'm 13, and in middle school. My friend has been being mean to my boyfriend, hitting him, yelling at him for no reason, and last week poured water on him. He's getting hurt, even though he's done nothing to her. He won't say anything to her. It's hard to watch and I finally told my friend that I wasn't going to let her treat him that way, and now we don't talk; she's been sitting at another table at lunch. Another friend told me she's plotting something, but she isn't sure what. My bully friend is the type to not care about what other people think and does whatever she wants. I'm afraid she's really going to hurt someone, or there's going to be humiliation involved. I, of course, have thought about going to the counselor, but I know even if I send an anonymous email, she'll know it's me when the counselor tries to talk to her about it. I'm trying to keep my friends safe, but I'm scared that keeping quiet will allow something to happen. Yet, what would happen if I told? Thanks!

2007-12-14 17:54:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There are a total of 3 boys, 22,21,19. They have all lived out of the house for years now, and two of them are married and starting there own families. My mother in law constantly calls, and refers to herself as their mommy. She is really nosey, which i expect, but it just seems to me like she can't accept that shes not there to take care of them like they are her babies anymore. Which i understand, but it gets to the point where i am uncomfortable with how much she calls, and how much she thinks she needs to know. Please don't get me wrong, I am a mother too. Example... my husband had surgery on his hand, he called and told her, but didn’t give her enough time to actually make it to the surgery, because he didn’t want her to go, but didn’t want to tell her that. She threw a fit. she will call my husband, constantly, i am talking 3 times a day everyday, and he doesn't want to be rude to her, but he doesn't want her calling so much. There is more, but I just don't know what to do as far as with myself. I don’t care to talk to her about it, but I just want to try to maybe not be so uncomfortable with it. He sees the problem, but we both know that it will really hurt her if he says something. I myself do not like people knowing my business, money, anything unless I choose to tell them. She asks about everything, bills, anything. I wouldn’t have a problem with it if she was asking my husband, and it was his personal business, and I wasn’t included, but this is now OUR business, and anytime we try to avoid tellin her, she throws a fit and complains to the oldest son. It just stresses me out. It shouldn’t but it does.

2007-12-14 17:49:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend never takes me out on dates. Not even to the movies or out for dinner. He has the money, so that's not the issue. This really upsets me. Should I dump him? Or, should I bring it up to him?

2007-12-14 17:47:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 17:46:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 17:45:43 · 12 answers · asked by toofasttone 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 29 he is 34 and married. He's cool and all, but I just think its kinda wierd. I NEVER wear revealing shirts.

2007-12-14 17:45:05 · 3 answers · asked by Tammy A 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for only a few months & I already find myself having a competition with my husband's games. I am at this stage where I am begginf my husband to spend time with me. He rather sit in front of the playstation & play for hours instead of us spending time together. I am tired of begging him for his attention. He should know his responsiblilties, etc. I don't mind him paying 1 or 2 hrs during the weekends but 7 hrs on 1 day of the weekend, I think that is a bit too much.

And when I do remind him that its too much now, he will give me the 5mins story or he is almost done & after asking him for the 10th time now, when he finally puts the computer or PS off, he is all moody.

All I want to do is spend time with my husband but he rather be spending that time with his games. Should I be begging for my husband's attention it this way

2007-12-14 17:36:53 · 14 answers · asked by Cute 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok me and this nick guy been seeing each for one month now and We were just friends but dating and he said he wanted to get to know me. We never had sex or nothing like that. Anywho We would go out and cuddle sometimes and I thought things were going well and then one day he never called me and two weeks went by he never came by. Then three weeks no call from nick, I was crying and hurting. Now I find out my ex friend jenny stole him from me and they are going out now. He told me He liked her alot, Even loved her and felt that she was the one for him. And he's never had anyone as sweet as her and so caring and that he was sorry, ******* sorry? How can He say he's sorry after ******* using me like that and going for her. I am hurting so bad I don't know what I did so wrong. Someone please tell me where did I go wrong.

2007-12-14 17:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats it mean when me and this guy are really good friends and we hangout all the time. I told him i liked him alot. were always hanging out and talkin on the computer , but at school he will talk to every girl except me, all he does is look at me. I do the same thing to him too , since he wont talk to me i talk to every guy except him, and i just look at him. what does this mean?
and when i told him i think we shouldnt even be friends anymore he was like i dont wanna stop talkin to you or hanging out wit you, and he knows im not a whore and would not give him anything but he still chooses me to hangout with over them whores he hangs out wit. and he knows he can get some from them but he still chooses me. what does this mean? im confused! why does he ignore me at school and talk to every girl but me?

2007-12-14 17:35:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well its about this guy and we're sorta friends..and we hug sometimes..but then he normally puts his arm around my shoulders, but one day i just hugged him and his hand landed on my waist and then another day i was talking to him and he hugged me and his hand was on my lower back..i dont see him hugging other girls much..in fact not at all...but sometimes im not sure..i do like him though so please help me by answering

2007-12-14 17:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by sou chef 2 in Singles & Dating

we both kind of like eachother
i was gonna ask her in person, and yea at the gym, but it was pretty busy and there was a lot of interruptions,

and yea so i called her and we were talking, and she said yes (:

but, i just need some advices please
on conversations and stuff, i know you should just go with the flow, but yeaa haha. and i don't really want to talk about basketball because thats what we mostly talk about and i know if i was her i would hate that.

so whats some good conversation stuff?

please and thanks :)

2007-12-14 17:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by EMB 2 in Singles & Dating

your fantastic husband totally forgot about it and has been forgetting about it for the past 5 years of your marriage?

2007-12-14 17:34:07 · 14 answers · asked by Equinox 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 17:32:27 · 15 answers · asked by Nadir L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think this is like SO retarded? My really good friend quit being friends with me, is spreading rumors about me, amd texting me really crappy messages because 1 of or other friends called her a hoe and she is blaming me 4, saying it was my fault our friend called her that when I had nothing to do with it!!!!

2007-12-14 17:31:06 · 6 answers · asked by volleyball_katie_gurl 3 in Friends

Tell me honestly guys how many of you would prefer to own a Ferrari instead of having a super-model as your girl friend?

2007-12-14 17:29:46 · 8 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1 in Singles & Dating

it seems like some of that aspect has changed, but not lately

2007-12-14 17:28:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother pretends hes a gangster and acts 'black' (sort of like J-roc from trailer park boys) all of the time. Its been happening for months now and hes making me mad. His attitude has changed too, and it seems hes not interested in anything except getting 'crunk' What should I do?

2007-12-14 17:27:00 · 23 answers · asked by WHAT THE HELL 4 in Family

I have a fiance that is, to say the least, selfish. We have 2 kids together, and he always leaves me with them while he goes out to the bar with friends, but I am not allowed to go out. He won't admit to cheating, but I think that he has. He used to be addicted to drugs and he would stay gone all night and not answer his phone. Sometimes, he would say that he was going to the gas station, and I would not see him until the next day. One time, he disappeared for 3 days! Also, he doesn't have a job right now and we have to live with my brother. I just had my daughter, and yet, I am the one desperately looking for a job. We don't even have a car! He doesn't even go to bed until 4 or 4:30am and doesn't wake up until like 3pm. He isn't even worried about supporting our children...I know I need to leave him, but I love him....sometimes. What should I do?

2007-12-14 17:26:10 · 21 answers · asked by Amber D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.

2007-12-14 17:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating