whats it mean when me and this guy are really good friends and we hangout all the time. I told him i liked him alot. were always hanging out and talkin on the computer , but at school he will talk to every girl except me, all he does is look at me. I do the same thing to him too , since he wont talk to me i talk to every guy except him, and i just look at him. what does this mean?
and when i told him i think we shouldnt even be friends anymore he was like i dont wanna stop talkin to you or hanging out wit you, and he knows im not a whore and would not give him anything but he still chooses me to hangout with over them whores he hangs out wit. and he knows he can get some from them but he still chooses me. what does this mean? im confused! why does he ignore me at school and talk to every girl but me?
2007-12-14 17:35:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Consider this to be a good opportunity for you to go ask him personally and let the conversation flow from there.
2007-12-14 17:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both enjoy playing hard to get with each other..why ruin a good friendship if you have one going? He is cool apparently with you not offering anything more than certain stuff and if he's not then he's probably not that good of a friend. Sometimes some of us are just meant to be friends. I mean you've expressed your feelings to him, if he really felt that way don't you think he would have told you or would have asked if you two could just be exclusive? He didn't, therefore that tells me he either wants to just leave it as friends or is frustrated because you won't give it up which if you don't want to DON'T! :)
2007-12-14 17:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by mribal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you BOTH sincerely like each other, enjoy each other's company, and chat quite a bit etc. There's obviously some common interest just give it time. If he's "the one" to you and you're "the one" to him then you have the rest of your life to be together. So, if all you're feeling is confusion you have to wonder if he's equally confused. It's easy to misinterpret people's actions sometimes - and hormones take a lot of getting used to.
If he's not talking to you in public but talking to other girls for some other reason than because YOU'RE not talking to him in public and instead talking to other guys then he's just not that in to you (or you're not that into him) and you're both just flirting but keeping your options open.
They both have to work for you to make a relationship work. If one or both of you is "keeping your options open" then that's bad news for the relationship.
Your heart is your sail but your head is your rudder, the seas are pretty rough sometimes... bon voyage!
2007-12-14 18:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mooney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you but something is holding him back. Maybe he's scared. Maybe he's never had a gf.Or maybe he has one somewhere else (another school) Maybe he's a virgin. Maybe he just has commiment issues. I think you should talk to him about it. Be open, nothing wrong with putting your cards on the table. At least this way you won't have to keep playing a guessing game.
2007-12-14 17:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by italianpryncess32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a guy secret
You girls have your ways that we guys can never figure out. This one is ours.
You may want to define your role clearer. If you are looking for more you may have to move on and find someone that likes to do things your way.
2007-12-14 17:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him?
If he's embarrassed to be seen with you in public then he's not worth it. You deserve better. Find out the truth, might be painful but being used is worse.
2007-12-14 17:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Imogen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's shallow and only likes talking to attractive and hot girls. Though I don't know if you aren't attractive or not. I used to not like talking to people in public who were super ugly. I felt embarrassed talking to them.
2007-12-14 17:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just likes talking to you where there wont be interruptions and noone can eavesdrop. maybe he likes to listen to just you as you talk. if your really good friends you should ask him his opinion on them whores, but call em by name(he might get offended). at school start up a conversation and try to carry it for as long as you can, maybe he'l catch on and start talking too
2007-12-14 17:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously likes you as a freidn but not as a g/f, or maybe you should make it more obvious that you want to go out with him. I dont really know why though you would say that you want to stop being friends with him.
2007-12-14 17:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by jimmyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is a jerk. If he won't talk to you in front of everyone, then he is ashamed in some way. Ask him what his problem is. If he doesn't have an answer, then ditch him. You can do better.
2007-12-14 17:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Amber D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋