We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..
We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.
It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..
what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.
She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.
2007-12-14 17:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is going to sound blunt and crass but, dump her!!!! She wants to screw around with other guys (or girls), to soar her wild oats. You seem like a very sincere person, so you're too good for her. I agree with the other comments: date other girls until you find a REAL WOMAN, she's not for you. If she has a heart, she'll eventually regret that she dumped you. If not, SO WHAT!!!! She's the past, have fun now - enjoy your newly found bachelorhood. Eventually you'll find a woman who'll deserve your love and be a part of your future. It'll be rough for now, but so are you!! You'll be OK. I wish you the best...
2007-12-14 17:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by DiscoBoyLives!!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate 2 break this 2 u dude but she dumped u 4 good u have 2 accept and respect what she wants but look on the bright side at least u and her can be friends u did the same mistake i did u remind me of me but that right there was the problem u moved 2 fast on the woman take it easy slowly dont jump into a relationship 2 fast thats the worst thing u could do get time 2 know her more see what u did just because u see a girl or woman that doesnt mean make her ur girl in a week it takes time man get over it and her u have no other choice but ask her why she broke it off with you . get over her move on with your life trust me youll find someone else i know exactly how u feel take it from me i been there
2007-12-14 17:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she may feel a bit smothered. I know how you feel. Me and my current boyfriend, we met and things happened so fast. The attraction was there, everything. I felt like I knew him alll my life. I fell for him and I fell hard. It was intense and quick. I knew and he knew. The problem is, that she is not ready for that. Some women are afraid of feelings. Maybe she felt too rushed. She says she wants to be your friend but she really dosen't. She is not making the effort. She's hanging out with other guys. Just leave it alone. Don't call her. Find another woman that can appreciate you for who and what you are. Let someone love you for you, you'll find a woman that like intense guys that know what they want!
2007-12-14 17:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by rashida_16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough one. Once you have feelings for someone you really should take some time to step back and have a few breaths. I suggest you dont "rebound date" because that can only cloud your head.
As for being friends, it doesn't sound like you are comfortable with that just yet. You have every right to control your environment now. If you are not comfortable seening her as a friend, tell her. She made the choice and will have to respect your reaction to it. Draw your lines and think about yourself right now.
I'm sorry to hear your situation... hope you feel better soon.
2007-12-14 17:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by mandy e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 08:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by baskette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok no one ever thinks they will find another you will u want her back heres what you do agree with her she says you guys need to be apart go out party take pictures with hot girls and show her i guarantee she will see her mistake
2007-12-14 17:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by LostAngel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone and get you another GF. she did not know what she wanted in the first place. Women & Girls never know what they want. you will learn this again later in life.
2007-12-14 17:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by agello24 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel sorry for you but this is getting a bit like the cruise question
2007-12-14 17:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by skippa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry you'll get over pretty soon.
2007-12-14 17:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋