soo yeaa, i just asked this girl to the movies?

Question

we both kind of like eachother
i was gonna ask her in person, and yea at the gym, but it was pretty busy and there was a lot of interruptions,

and yea so i called her and we were talking, and she said yes (:

but, i just need some advices please
on conversations and stuff, i know you should just go with the flow, but yeaa haha. and i don't really want to talk about basketball because thats what we mostly talk about and i know if i was her i would hate that.

so whats some good conversation stuff?

please and thanks :)

can anyone talk to me on yahoomessenger if you want to help me out even more thanks :)

yahoomessenger:embuen1991

yea im 16 tooo!

Answer 1

I'm a girl! Ask about what she's doing for the holidays and stuff like that. Try to build from conversation to conversation like:

you: so are u goin anywhere for christmas?(hannakah or whatever)

her: no, im going to my grandmas.

you: Oh, where does she live?

her: In NYC

you: oh cool when are u leaving?

its not that hard, and you wont have to talk too much since its a movie.

good luck!

Answer 2

What you do is let her talk then just go with it.
Tell her some good jokes not those stupid corny jokes(geez those are stupid) You can talk about different movies or ask her about herself. Or you can talk about Starbucks hold on man because everyone wants to drink there. Or you can ask her what if question. Not like sick twisted ones like " would you rather be cut in half or burn to death" Ask things that she has to think about like "if you can go back into time what would you change or see".Read over these guidelines and start putting them to use as you go about your day and converse with others.

1. The major point of good conversation is knowing what to say and what not to say.

This can mean both topics of conversation, but also the context. For example a conversation you would have with your best friend may not be the type of conversation you have with the cashier at the grocery store.

You should know what topics are okay to say to certain people. Knowing this will help you to avoid making someone uncomfortable.

2. Communicate with confidence.

You should not be second guessing yourself throughout the whole conversation. The best way to be confident is to stick to talking about topics you know something about.

When this is not possible because someone else brought up a topic you know nothing about then you can ask questions and take an interest. That way you will be able to continue in the conversation.

Do not try to talk about something you know nothing about. This just makes you look like a know it all who really knows nothing and shoots your creditability down.
Good Luck

!Happy Holidays!

Answer 3

Ask her to talk about herself and things she is interested in. Then be sure to listen. Lots of people who are regarded as excellent conversationalists are actually just really good listeners. Most people like to talk so they like having a listener. Or ask her about her opinions on various topics--news items, school issues, political events, environmental issues, or ask her about books and movies she has enjoyed. When you get her to talk and you listen, you get a chance to get to know her better. Maybe she will ask you questions about your interests, so be ready to answer too.

Answer 4

look around you
see what can start a conversation
if you pass by a restaurant, ask her if she has ever been there, but dont let her get away with one word answers. and dont ask her how her day at work was. you can ask how her day was, ask her about her profession, if she plans on staying with it, etc. and if you dont want to start off your first date with so much of getting to know each other, pull it out of randomness, like the restaurant. say quirky things that make her smile, make her laugh. make her feel like she is comfortable with you and that you are comfortable with her. be witty.

Answer 5

hmmmmm education are you guys in school what about what kind of things from ya'lls past outside of exs (lol) do you have in common. What kind of hobbies you both have and so on hope this helps a little its been a while for me lol

Answer 6

Get her talking about herself, ask her what her favorite past times are, and why, open ended questions work the best

Answer 7

ask her questions about her self.
it puts people at ease.. talking about themselves makes them comfortable.. coz they kno the subject well ofcourse..
and yea just go with the flow too,
she likes u anyway, so she'll cut u some slack.

Answer 8

Well, in my opinion, I think girls like to talk about themselves more than hearing all about you so I'd ask her what she likes to do and stuff like that. Sorry if this doesn't help!

Answer 9

confident, confident it is. style of. besides, she probable thinks she's already your female pal. I purely wish you have popular one yet another for extra effective than 5 months to tell her which you like her.

Answer 10

ASK HER WHAT SHE LIKES (COLOR, FLOWER, TYPE OF FOOD AND ALL THAT STUFF) WHAT SHE LIKES TO DO. WHAT SHE DOESN'T LIKE ETC. MOST PEOPLE LIKE TO TALK ABOUT THEM SELVES, IF YOU GET HER GOING ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS LISTEN AND NOD YOUR HEAD. BUT DON'T FORGET WHAT SHE SAYS OR YOU MIGHT REGRET IT LATER ON DOWN THE ROAD.