Ok me and this nick guy been seeing each for one month now and We were just friends but dating and he said he wanted to get to know me. We never had sex or nothing like that. Anywho We would go out and cuddle sometimes and I thought things were going well and then one day he never called me and two weeks went by he never came by. Then three weeks no call from nick, I was crying and hurting. Now I find out my ex friend jenny stole him from me and they are going out now. He told me He liked her alot, Even loved her and felt that she was the one for him. And he's never had anyone as sweet as her and so caring and that he was sorry, ******* sorry? How can He say he's sorry after ******* using me like that and going for her. I am hurting so bad I don't know what I did so wrong. Someone please tell me where did I go wrong.
2007-12-14 17:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you did nothing wrong, you just happened to have a very immature male friend, and an immature female friend who didn't value the relationship you could have had.
Look at his departure as a new start to your life, surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are, and enjoy life.
It might be tough since you were hoping for a deeper relationship with this guy. Judging from their character, you don't want to waste your time on them.
2007-12-14 17:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by idahdespida 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made the most common mistake there is- chose the wrong guy. To be fair, she didn't steal him, he had a part to play. He may be genuinely sorry, but that's no excuse to be a coward and not tell you straight to your face instead of leaving you hanging for weeks. Don't give the the satisfaction of getting to you- he's not worth your tears. Just be beautiful wonderful you, because someone great will come along soon and appreciate how lucky they are to have found you. In the meantime, punch something inanimate and pretend it's Jenny's head. It always helps me when I'm mad.
2007-12-14 17:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I can see, you did nothing wrong. Life is full of backstabbers, disappointment and guys who are nothing more than pieces of crap. Not all girls will backstab, and not all guys are crap, but the sad fact of the matter is that people hurt each other all the time, whether they mean to or not.
One of the cruellest things guys can do is pull the disappearing act. Be glad he's gone, because he's obviously a total coward.
2007-12-14 17:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Who's That Girl? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth He probably was going with her while going with you, and neither of them just could tell you. Most likely He wanted to see what he could get from you before commenting to her. However don't worry about it, its a win and lose thing is this world. yOU WILL Find someone else.
2007-12-14 17:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel lucky he left you sooner than later, before you invested more time and caring in a relationship with a putz. Any guy that is flaky enough to be "stolen" away is NOT worth it!
Pick yourself up, make yourself up nice, and forget the loser. Welcome to a brighter future, because you are worth so much more than what you've been getting!
2007-12-14 17:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No guy who's untrue to his lady pal is worth scuffling with for end the relationship right this moment with him and pass on which comprise your existence, by fact jointly as your out of u . s . they're slumbering with one yet another at the back of your decrease back proper now. and the only loser is him you deserve greater perfect you be attentive to it and that i do,
2016-11-27 01:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to trash it out in personal with your friend .
You need to however accept the fact that he doesnt like you as much as he likes your friend .
2007-12-16 04:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by kirk b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not you...dont worry...if he can so easily leave a girl without respectfully talking to you and ending it he can leave her so easily too...
2007-12-14 17:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them alone and ignore them
2007-12-14 17:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by sweets a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋