i went to place where me and my girls hang out a place near by my house then we some boys playing football then we decided to play wiht them but they wouldnt let us play so we sat on the bench just talking and there was this younger boy like 2 years younger than me he was flirting with me and i have a boyfreind and my boyfriend best mate is playing football den we were dancing with some of the boys then the girls left me and him toghether and i didnt know what to say he kisssed me but it was dark and no one saw us and we were kisssing and i told him that i have a boyfriend and he was like no one will know and then the proplem is i know his big brother and he is in year as me does that make me a pidophille
and should i tell my boyfriend or lie to him can you plese give me some advice
a.s.a.p
2007-12-14 23:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't tell him if you aren't going to kiss that boy any more.
The lesson is in how you feel now. Connect the dots. One little kiss leads to all that guilt and sweating every social call. Best not to tempt the hand of fate and play straight.
2007-12-14 23:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the brutal truth is yes, kissing is classified as being unfaithful...unless you were in a studio or on a stage acting a kissing scene, which you were not. flirting too is considered cheating in my books. i believe this because i too have flirted & cheated. at the time it feels exciting bcoz it's risky & you're all nervous but when the conscious adjusts to what's happened, the awful reality sinks in. no u r not a paedophile or craddle snatcher. now as for what to do next...what does your heart tell you? not ur mind but ur heart? if u genuinely cared about ur boyfriend you wudn't have got urself into that predicament but since the experience have ur feelings changed? are you worried to lose him or are u worried about what will be said about you when ppl find out? personally i wudn't worry about the latter. it's no one's business & no one has the right to judge you so stuff the rumours & gossip that may follow. if you care about ur boyfriend i'm be honest & tell him what happened bcoz there's a big chance that he will find out & confront you sooner or later. your call darling. best wishes. lying only makes things worse. u accumulate karma. i hope i've been able to help.
2007-12-14 23:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy is two years younger than you and it does not make you a paedophile so don't worry about that.
As to whether or not to Tell your boyfriend that is totally your decision, only you know how he will react. I would like to say that honesty is the best policy, but you know your boyfriends character best.
2007-12-14 23:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow okay thats a loaded question. If you allow yourself to be out kissing other boys then yes, you are cheating on him. If this was purely an accident and you can live with the secret than you are okay. But I believe if you've done this once you'll do it again, it may be best to break it off.
2007-12-14 23:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth if your conscience is haunting you. and if he's a good man to you, maybe you are not ready for commitment. Being single is not so bad, many married women who don't believe in divorce, warn and remind me to appreciate my freedom. If he your bf is a bad lover, or neglects you in several ways, it's normal to look your needs else where. Just in the future, dump the one you are with before you cheat.
2007-12-14 23:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by ‹(•¿•)› 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pidophille
2017-01-15 15:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by bobette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 08:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by brijshwaer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... it's not the worst...it was only a kiss. However... seeing that the "word" might get out and back to your boyfriend... I would suggest you fessing up and come clean... tell him what happened.
2007-12-14 23:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if know one is going to tell your boyfriend then i wouldn't bother unless you felt really guilty. it is only 2 years difference it doesn't make you a paedophile!don't worry so much things could be worse. was one kiss. can i have some advice people? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkOP_gG3WIGyoPiV7reo3frsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071212134838AA6O0Fw
2007-12-14 23:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,
considering that you went to hang out with someone else, and kissed him
that would be cheating.
but there are some boyfriends that don't really care,
as long as they can call you theirs.
i hope i helped...
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2007-12-14 23:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋