Theres this guy and we went out for about 7 months in total because he kept ending it and starting it again, and im still not over him properly, but ive told him how i feel and hes just said nothing, but he still seems to talk to me, and push and hit me and stuff on purpose but he says he likes someone else and im dead confused can someone help me please ?!
2007-12-14 23:03:34 · 12 answers · asked by Emma :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Emma, dont ever let anybody treat you in such a cruel, nasty way.
I understand you still have feelings for him, but he so blanantly doesn't care for you at all.
Sounds to me as though he's keeping you hanging on a bit of string and will reel you in when ever he feels like it because he knows you still have feelings for him, and he's not sure how things are going to work out with his "somebody Else".
How many times would you let me hit you over the head with a baseball bat? as a rough guess i'd say you'd stop me after the first time, so stop this guy from treating you as though your something he just trod in.
He will continue to treat you this way because you allow him to and as my old mum always told me, you only get treated the way you allow people to treat you in the first place.
2007-12-14 23:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you at all. Anyone who hits you, pushes you on purpose does not like you. If you had a best female friend who did this to you, you'd get rid of her for good, wouldn't you? He's no different and your response should be the same.
So, get rid of your confusion - he's an abusive jerk, you deserve better, and he is playing mindgames with you. Move on and upgrade your choice of boyfriend - there are much, much better out there.
2007-12-15 09:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg i have well been there before...
He hit me and stuff when i told him how i felt.. it turned out he didnt like me in that way, he liked the other girl and he was just doing it for abit of attention. Id tell you to forget about him but that would make me a hyprocrit bcos i still have feelings for the lad i am talking about...
We went out for 8 mounth in total... but yeah forget about him, he will just hurt you in the end... He isnt worth it
2007-12-15 07:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him push you around.... PUSH him back, in a playful way. Tell him to go play in the 5:00 traffic. Then walk away and forget him.
2007-12-15 07:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any Guy who treats you that way Sweetie is no Man at all. Let him go and move on, there's someone out there who will Love and Treat you better. Good Luck.
2007-12-15 07:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not good for you he has been hitting you and pushing you. Forget him you will be better off without him.
2007-12-15 07:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that will treat you for the princess you are,
No woman deserves to be treated the way that you have.
Thanks, and best of luck :) xx
Don't sell yourself short you CAN do better.
2007-12-15 08:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emma what's wrong with you? He keeps starting it and stopping it, hitting you and pushing you?
He's got you right where he wants you.
The guy's got problems. And so have you if you stay with him.
2007-12-15 07:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him find someone else
2007-12-15 07:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by Dasha A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
such a fickle and selfish guy.
Leave him, you're better off without him.
2007-12-15 07:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by undercovergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋