If I want to ask a classmate whose a girl to lunch or something, how do I ask so that it wouldn't seem creepy or as though I am asking her out on a date? Also I don't want some people to mistaken that I like them when I just wanna hang out. Sometimes people think the wrong way... So how can I do this without it being awkward?
Thanks
2007-12-14 23:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) "Hey, you want to have lunch? You gotta eat anyway, right?"
2) "So.... wanna have lunch?"
3) "I'm kinda hungry - wanna go have lunch?"
4) "Did you have lunch yet? Let's go."
Basically, keep it friendly, don't get all nervous b/c then she might think you mean more by asking her to eat with you.
Be cas, ok?
2007-12-15 13:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be real casual and say hey wanna grab some lunch. If a man asked me that I wouldn't think it was a date I would think we were just hanging out.
2007-12-15 07:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing special just invite her and say if she can join you because you want to taste their new menu somewhere , do it so naturally, as if it was just a friendly hang out, say if she has free time and then you can go as simple as that..dont be so reactive, let them think of what they want, your intension is clear so I dont think it matters if you invite one or two or more..do it in a subtle way as if not to look you are inviting for a purpose ok???good luck!!
2007-12-15 07:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a group of friends along with you, the lack of intimacy will suggest any thing other than a Date.
Good Luck and have Fun.
2007-12-15 07:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with a group of friends, and make sure she knows that it won't just be the two of you when you go out.
Though, women do like it when guys take the direct approach.
2007-12-15 07:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Seattle_Slacker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply write that you would like to meet her on a pay your way basis for untied conversation at a local coffee place ~~
2007-12-15 07:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chose a new restaurant and tell the friend you heard about a new/nice place and simply ask them if they would like to check it out with you...
2007-12-15 07:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um no its not a date but carefully how you ask her alright
Good Luck!!
2007-12-15 13:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have a gf.
2007-12-15 07:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by Smexi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jkjk nmm,
2007-12-15 07:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋