There were 3 of us...We were good friends..One day he and that other person fought...so there's only two of us...he's always there for me, I'm always there for him...he always cares for me...We were bestfriends...but the day they started talking once again...I was always left out in the group...I was rarely invited ...They talk like they're the only people around...I was always alone...but I don't understand why they still want me to hang out with them....It's ALWAYS LIKE THAT RIGHT?? AM I JUST AN OPTION??!!! MAYBE I REALLY AM JUST BOUND 2 BE ALONE!! It's not the same as before T_T
He's my bestfriend....but why did he leave me???
I can't take it...I can't confront him coz I'm still not ready...
2007-12-14 23:36:07 · 11 answers · asked by acerbus18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
plz don't kill yourself! that's not the solution. you need to talk to him about this and tell him everything you said to us. but don't kill yourself. I would sacrificed my life for you, if you just don't kill yourself!
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-14 23:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
geez, well ask them why you don't hang up with me, or ask if theres any problem. Well if does not work, still your not ready, try moving on, there so many fish and tuna on the sea that you can trust.
One thing, is he's your bestfriend why would you ended up like that? You can't call a friend like that but a traitor or ignorer! If he does not give his trust, then go and find friends there so many other people you can meet and sure more better than you have :]
Good luck and PLEASE don't kill yourself just for that.
2007-12-15 08:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by prickHEADnCRAZY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a group of 3 friends, one always gets left out. Like u said the 2 of them fought, so at tht time it was the other person left out, now its u. Take it easy.
Easiest way to test them is, stop hanging around with them for sometime, seem unavaialable and once they begin contacting u themselves u will know for a fact tht they r your friends. I am sure they do like u, just give them some time to miss you :)
2007-12-15 07:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Bladeedaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda went thru the same thing except it was one guy and we were best friends for 5 yrs and i went out with an ex who hurted me and my bestest guy friend stopped talking to me... no we are still not friends... but he will always be my bestest friend i wonder why i even try still to be his best friend its been 10 months... but you know what... maybe u could just write him a note and tell him your feelings... maybe ur best friend is trying to make the other friend not feel left out either... i kinda do that to my friends if i meet someone new i tend to hang with them more not on purpose it jus happens that way us as humans there aren't enuff of us to share so u gotta be patient... i hope this helped... but really if u wanna stay bffl then talk to him like asap.
2007-12-15 08:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r confused my dear. first if he is ur best of the friends then he may pay less attention to u but when really attention is required he will look 4 u only. remember loose talks do not occur between best friends but they discuss imp.matters in life and exchange their thoughts. so 1st analize this and take ur move
2007-12-15 08:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by bawa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them this.
If they are inseperable try and get one on one with them and explain how you feel. yeah, it's corny, but sometimes that what people really need to hear.
If they ignore what you tell them and keep on outing you, it's time to float around and find people that want to hear what your talking about and listen to you.
Killing yourself is pretty extreme. Friends aren't worth killing yourself over. Keep strong and you will find people that really will care about you.
2007-12-15 07:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by i_see_clouds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont kill yoursle life is worth liveing there are so many other people in the world to be friends with
2007-12-15 07:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Dasha A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same position as you....killing yourself it's not the best way.......
2007-12-15 08:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by GoGo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have ever heard a phrase called never trust your best friend but your enemy??
2007-12-15 07:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Khairul A R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to hit the curb and move on.
2007-12-15 08:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋