Im 25 n av jus been told to stay out of the girl i loves life! I sent her a txt telling her i was unhappy that she told me she didnt want a boyf n she sent me a txt back saying im bitter n twisted n2 leave her alone 4ever. I av been friends wiv her for 18 months, shes beautiful. We'd cuddle, hold hands, kiss on the lips(just pecs). I realised i loved her after a year n a bit she has lots of attention from guys n she split her boyf7 months ago, he was a jerk. I had2tell her i loved her.. more than friends. I was scared as ive never had a girlfriend n when i told girls in the past i like them, they reject me. Im overweight but have personality. I plucked up courage to tell her and she returned my feelings, i was soo happy. We kissed ncuddled all night, when i touched her she told me 'no' so i stopped, i was happy to wait aslong as she's happy. We were2 meet the next day but she didnt turn up, didnt answer my calls, 3wks later she has a new guy ntxt me just friends. What did i do??
2007-12-14 23:08:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you did was ignore all the good answers you got the last time you answered this question.
She may appear to be a witch but you appear to be bitter for asking this over and over instead of just moving on with your life.
2007-12-15 11:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Yes that's me! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact still remains that you are still friends, I was very over weight and I knew that I had to work on it for my self, So please don't bother her unless she sends you a text, don't you push this issue with her or you will lose her forever.
You can drop weight very fast, I did and it's easy to do. count calories 1500 calories a day will do the job. If you need dental work get as much of that done. Diet pop tastes like crap but that's what you have to do. do some streches not exersise. but do get active I'll help you out no worries there.
don't eat just because and don't eat past 6:30 pm. Get used to this. She still likes you. Don't worry about that work on your self this is a major issue but it won't take long.
Do you work if not get a job and get busy with you!!!!!
she could come back to you if you would take care of yourself.
You sir have a kind heart so don't let this make you eat more!
This is up to you and it always was up to you. If you care,and love yourself enough to change then all things will change for you. becareful about what and when you eat.
If she's not over weight then you should work on yourself this has been a problem with alot of people not just you and me.
Take control over yourself I know that this hurts!
you can contact me I guess put some more details of you and what other problems that you may have Remember all is not lost you just think it is. If and only if she sends you a text that will be the only time you can reply never the other way around.
Start working on yourself Now get busy and remember what I've told you keep this and read it every day if you have to.
You now have a goal get to it my friend I know you can if you put your mind to it work on yourself, change the things you know that need changed then you'll see what I'm talking about.
You have alot more going for you than you think.
2007-12-14 23:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's really messed up of her. Please don't judge us all off of some rather mean and caddy women, we don't all judge on how slim or fit a man is. It wasn't anything you did believe me, it was all her. So I say forget her and move on you deserve much better. I hope you can be happy again soon, it sounds like you are a respectful guy that deserves a real woman not someone who is going to play you like that. Good luck.
2007-12-14 23:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you did. You already admitted you could have been in better shape for her. These days, to hold a perfect woman you must BE perfect.
She kind of used you. I would take your next girlfriend with a grain of salt and be more careful to get exactly what you want from life with her. And like I said, either raise your physical standards or lower your expectations.
2007-12-14 23:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry bud, the bitter truth is she doesn't like you. You are NOT a different species...A girl will like you and be attracted to you if you have the triats women want! Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. I feel bad that this happened to you. I will pray for you hun....really, Good luck.
btw, telling you right now....she doesn't deserve you. she is a wench.
2007-12-14 23:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You misunderstood her feelings she loves you as a friend and not a partner.Be pacient there will be some one out there who will love you for who you are not wat you are.Dont put yourself down enjoy your life and one day that special person will come.
2007-12-14 23:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One simple solution, hit the gym.
2007-12-14 23:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mastermind 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What a ******* *****,Forget her man
2007-12-14 23:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ulsterlad 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋