Me and my bf broke up after 2 months and while i was going out with him my friends ( including my best friends ) made sooo much fun of him and called him gay. Well he wants me back but hes going out with a girl already. And he broke up with her for me and asked me out I said sure... but then i guess he doesn't know who to choose me or that other chick. and my best friend Lauryn told me that if this relationship lasts for more than a week she will never talk to me ever again. And this other dude Aaron told me that he can't talk to me anymor ebecause I like my ex again and Aaron says hes gay and stuff just cuz hes a male cheerleader, and at times he can totally be a jerk but thats just how guys are. So do you know what I should do because my list is family Boyfriends/best friends and then friends so i can't choose between my boyfriend and my best friend.
2007-12-14 22:44:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hate them back or change BF's!
2007-12-14 22:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by da_zoo_keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he is beating you or mentally abusing you or forcing you to do things you don't want to do then screw your friends. they should stand by you no matter what, that is why they are called FRIENDS! just because he is a male cheerleader doesn't make him gay, there could be a lot of jealousy in the fact that he can do something they can't. tell Lauryn and Aaron that if they were your real friends they would suck it up and deal with it, because your happiness is what matters. it sounds to me that perhaps they aren't happy with their lives so they try to make yours miserable. as long as your boyfriend makes you happy then that is all that matters. mind you, boys/men come and go throughout your life and friends are forever, but you have to evaluate the friendships before you throw away love, you also have to evaluate the love before you throw away a friendship, but sounds to me that your friends are in the wrong here. life is too short to dance to the same beat that everyone else does, stand up for yourself and ya know what, perhaps you might just dump the boyfriend and the 2 friends and start over new and find better friends that accept you and your decisions or a better boyfriend. good luck i hope it all works out for you!
2007-12-15 06:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by phyregdss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heyahh
i would choose your best friends because even though it doesnt seem like it now your best friends are the best things in the world!!! you should always choose friends over boyfriends ALWAYS think about all he hppy memories you had with your friends how they cared for you and that a boyfriend just wont do that....well he will but you know what i mean
I think you should choose your best friends but its not my decision
Hope I Helped Gooood Luck And Merry Xmas =]=]=]
2007-12-15 06:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Donna... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooo, all guy's are not jerks
there are very decent guy's out there and if I were you I would wait until I found that guy
once a cheater, always a cheater
I have been married 19 years and my husband cheated on me several times
I always took him back because he said he was sorry and it wouldn't happen again
wrong... so now I am getting a divorce because there is someone out there that will treat me like the lady I am
I say dump this looser before you pour you heart into himand get hurt reall bad
2007-12-15 06:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by moon pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Your mates should be happy for you who you go out with is none of there business I know its hard to explain that too your mates. And well, that guy needs to make his mind up.. atleast he didnt cheat on the girl with you which doesnt make him such a bad guy.
2007-12-15 06:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your BFF is just watching your back.Do not take her advise for granted she just wants you to not get your heart broken if this guy decides to run off again. Be careful and value wisdom when it comes your way.
2007-12-15 06:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Samijo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends support you. You need to see what is really important. How could you listen to their BS. Do what you want to do. Pick some better friends.
2007-12-15 07:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Bob Dylan ♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending i mean if u dont feel this guy is 'the one'.. dont bother risking more important relationships. but also remember your friends say they wont be there but if theyre your true friends in the end they will. but really its all up to you and what you think is in your best interest, what will make you happy.
2007-12-15 06:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has that much trouble choosing you are this other girl I would say forget him but as far as your friends that would be up to you but it might me they are trying to tell you something.
2007-12-15 06:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by jean t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends sound extremely controlling and disrespectful of you. Tell them to **** off
2007-12-15 06:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋