Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

spouse/partner or what ever you want to call it.

I don't think I would be. . . ehhh
its a long story^^

2007-12-16 14:23:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife says **** not sexually attracted to me anymore. We have a daughter together. We started out having sex witho out any meds. Then I went to the doctor and he gave the meds needed to stay hard. But here five years later shes ready to go.

2007-12-16 14:22:28 · 13 answers · asked by "RAW" 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 14:21:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are having Christmas dinner at our home. It's going to be a small get-together. I don't know if I'm going to cook or just order a complete meal from the local grocery store. I have a relative that never compliments my cooking and I think that's rude. I mean how can you just sit there and eat without saying anything? I always tell her that her food tastes good. I know this sounds petty but this is just one thing out of many that drives me nuts about this woman. Anyway, would you cook for her or just order food? It's only her, her hubby, and their child who are coming to dinner. What would you do?

2007-12-16 14:21:20 · 7 answers · asked by Carrie 4 in Family

2007-12-16 14:20:48 · 5 answers · asked by cubanitodela36 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife is a stay at home mom of a 12 yr old.i work 5 days a week pay all the bills & she gets $700 a month for spending money for her self i buy everything else food included.she says thats not enough for her.i come home do just about all the cooking & cleaning up after dinner. i do the grocery shopping & keep the other daily things in the house. she stays up late every nite so i go to bed alone every nite.she goes where she wants when she wants.sometimes till late at nite 1 to 2 am.is this a normal marrage & if not what should a wifes responsabiltys be for a stay at home mom??

2007-12-16 14:19:37 · 18 answers · asked by wayne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey if you live in houston area come check out baypoint church sunday at 7pm every body whos anybody will be there havin fun its a candle service its a chance to visit...........dont make excuse s

2007-12-16 14:18:42 · 16 answers · asked by kazz55 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I having been dating for around 3 years now. Both of us see our relationship ending in marriage if all goes well. The only major concern I have is not in him, it is his family. First off my family loves my boyfriend. Everyone is very kind and inviting to him.Then comes the problem..his family is does not include me in hardly anything. They barely talk to me when I go to their house. I do not feel welcome. He has talked with them about it and feels bad. His mother is very protective and I think this is the cause. She is always fighting with him to come home and not stay at college (it is his first year). She is completely against premarital relations and is worried about us. I think it is none of her business. The way she treats me really hurts. I'd like to be accepted. What should I do..continue being friendly and try to make a good relationship with them even though it doesnt seem to work? Should I try to give a little distance and accept that we wont be close.

2007-12-16 14:17:49 · 3 answers · asked by sjtwae 2 in Family

MY DAUGHTERS AGES 12 AND 14 ARE NOT GONNA BE ABLE TO COME HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS BECAUSE OF FINANCIAL REASONS, THEY WAS REALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO BEING HERE BUT I NOR THEIR MOTHER CAN AFFORD IT. THEY LIVE IN A SCHOOL CALLED MOOSEHEART IN IL. IT IS A GREAT PLACE BUT WE REALLY MISS THEM DEARLY, THEIR MOTHER HAS NOT SEEN THEM IN 2 YEARS I SAW THEM IN JULY OF THIS YEAR, WHAT CAN I DO OR SAY TO HELP THEM BETTER UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION?

2007-12-16 14:17:43 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I'm on my third week of one of my pill packs. I'm going on vacation soon and I was planning on skipping my placebo pills and just starting a new pack, to try and skip my period.

The thing is, I've got my period right now, even though I'm not really "supposed" to because I'm taking the white pills with hormones in them right now.

Normally I'm afraid about skipping periods because I don't want spotting or anything, but I was thinking, if I have my period now, could that mean maybe there's less chance of me spotting when I skip my placebo pills next week, since all the blood's leaving now?

2007-12-16 14:17:39 · 14 answers · asked by Naomi 1 in Singles & Dating

I have recently wrote a story, and theres a few people i will say no to, but anyone want to read what i have so far and tell me how they feel on it, the few people i will say no to will be mad, but i will choose about 5 of you, thanks!oh and Laura, of course you can read it, lol you wont count as a 5, your too good for that, lol.

2007-12-16 14:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by Dann (: 4 in Singles & Dating

been seperated from my wife for 9 months. Been trying like hell to save our marriage.She's had a boyfriend for a few months,no big deal.She"s cheated on me a few times in our 8 year marriage.Last time we talked she said she needed to divorce if we ever have a chance to get back together. Huh? I figure if we get divorce,then we're done for good.I dont understand her way of thinking.What to do people?

2007-12-16 14:15:51 · 21 answers · asked by flipper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've posted other questions about this mixed signal guy who is afraid to commit and have a real relationship with me. We've been dating 4 months but we see eachother a lot, have tons of fun, and electric chemistry. Long story short I want to connect more but he has serious emotional walls up. I know I can't change him and it hurts to constantly hold back around him. So, I am moving on. I want to brake it off next time we talk I can't go on this way even though I care about him. His Christmas present is coming in the mail soon. I want to leave it at his door, I really want him to have it still, but I'd leave it with a letter explaining why it's come to this (I am much better writing my thoughts on paper with no interruptions) The letter is very kind and just explains my needs vs. his needs and if he is ready someday I'd like to give us a shot but right now I have to go...basically. Is this a good/bad idea? How would you feel?

2007-12-16 14:15:20 · 11 answers · asked by Shera 3 in Singles & Dating

and i'm not overweight

2007-12-16 14:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by ynra BTB 4-18-09 6 in Weddings

About two months ago my girlfriend and I broke up. We were together for about 3 months and everything was going great. We had been neighbors since the 6th grade and had always been friends, but always had this feeling at the back of our minds that we would date at some point. After the first two months of dating I became sick with mono and about 1 month later we broke up. When we broke up she approached me very nicely and wanted the relationship to end on good terms.I was in a very depressed mood because of other things going on in my life and said some things that I wish I could take back. Ever since the breakup I've been really anxiety ridden. I've had trouble with some close friends at school and I just feel like I cant connect with people the way I used to. I think the problem is that I want to still be good friends with my ex, but im not sure I have the guts to call her up and tell her how I feel. Is it possible that this anxiety I have is because I haven't contacted her?

2007-12-16 14:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is that I am able to orgasm when I masturbate but not when my boyfriend is pleasuring me? He ends up getting so mad at me. I think it may because I get nervous with pressure or insecure or maybe he is doing something wrong. How can I fix this?

2007-12-16 14:13:08 · 7 answers · asked by beth 54321 1 in Singles & Dating

Does child support have to be paid if you have split custody?

2007-12-16 14:12:00 · 15 answers · asked by Raqi Killer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is two guys at my work that are dating eachother, only i know. A girl at work came up to me and told me there are rumors about me being a slut slepping with the both of the guys. I can either tell people that the guys are really gay or let people keep talking **** about me. I have nothing to do with them and their relationship.

2007-12-16 14:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by Honey b 4 in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to a wonderful man. We have been engaged for four years. We haven't gotten married yet because we have had family problems. I have been thinking about our relationship and realized that there are some second thoughts. I love him with all my heart. How do I know if this is right?

2007-12-16 14:11:24 · 15 answers · asked by Paige M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the state of Oklahoma.

2007-12-16 14:10:27 · 17 answers · asked by atchison5_07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 14:10:05 · 25 answers · asked by Lilac 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you feel if I came up to you, pinched your breasts/chest and said, "Lets get it ON! RAWR!" And started barking like crazy? And untied your shoes and tied the strings together so you couldn't run away? And did the Dr. Evil laugh and said, "Let's get jiggy, mama!" And gave you a sexy wink and sucked my finger and then stuck it in your ear and giggled for ten minutes straight?

2007-12-16 14:09:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship with the father of my children for a few yrs. we waited to get married because we wanted to make sure we were both mature enough to handle it (i'm 19 and he is 20- and that was my suggestion not his.) we have had a rough patch this summer, but i never pictured myself with anyone else....he said he didnt either. we were working things out and i was planning to move back with him after this baby was born (im due February 3, and i'm staying with my mother about an hour and a half away from him.) We had made all these plans and today he told me (i had to MAKE him say it cause he was too chicken) ...he told me that he didnt want to be with me, but he didnt want me to push him away. It came out of nowhere....we had all these plans....and we have kids!....how do i deal with this? what do i do now? I put everything on hold and now i'm not going to have any help! (my daughter is 14 months old and im 33 weeks with this one) how do i get over this pain? it hurts so bad

2007-12-16 14:09:51 · 7 answers · asked by Jada and Ty's mommy 3 in Family

In the real world. It's not really that upsetting. Outside of internet chat, you have family friends co-workers, and sometimes that in itself is upsetting to keep up with when you always want to stay in touch because. These are your friends. Internet friendships are really nice, when you interact with someone you have the same interests in. But in many cases, like ask. answer. discover. Friends are just points.

2007-12-16 14:09:26 · 4 answers · asked by msassata 2 in Singles & Dating

We talked a lot all night long at this party, even like in the first sentence we said to each other we accidently said it at the same time, he have a lot in comon , i told him we should hang out , and plus since we were at a friends house wahing a movie in his theater, i told him to save me a seat and he did imeadiatly , when he eventually left i told him:
"we should hang out some time" he said"yea , you can call me".

ive met this guy before too so its just a matter of time until i see him next.

please tell me does he sound interested?
did i do everythin right?



He didnt give me his phone number although!!

but i know him, and he showed me how to drive a jet ski this summer, i have his myspace i sent him a messege saying:


what your number then

2007-12-16 14:07:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i liked this boy named verulo ! sounds weird but hes very nice and respectful against me! when i told him i liked him he ignored me when we were good friends! then i talked to him as the next year started in 7th grade! we had our good & bad times trying to fix our friendship again !

Today we are closer friends than we used to be in the 6th grade . ive gotten over him but sometimes when we talk for a long period of time i start falling for him ! TOday i talked to him on the phone and told him about how my parents treat me and all ! and he said if u came to my house it would be a dream u would be in heaven u can do whatever u liked in my house ! what do i do i get over him the i dont ! im confused i dont know what im asking just read this and if u have any advice tell me ! thanks im so sorry about how long this question is !

2007-12-16 14:07:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just ask'n cause man... I'm fall'n hard and fast... Eeeeshhhhhh

2007-12-16 14:04:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My male friend I tell everything. I talk about anything and everything with him and he listens. He talks about his past bad relationship with me a couple of times too. I am not trying to hook up with him and we hang out with each other alot lately. He keeps bringing up my coworker which I had told him I like flirting with. This is the second coworker that he tries to embarrass me in front of and it pisses me off. Why can't he just be my boy. He calls me about 10 mins ago and brings him up, yet in another conversation today. While on the phone, some friends came by and all the sudden he had to go. He is being a jerk now. I know he is a flirt with all kinds of women and I don't get insulted if I see him or he talks about them. What the hell is his problem???? We are just friends and nothing else so why should he act out an embarrass me in front ppl just b/c he being a jealous jerk? He claims he doesn't like me like that and I don 't like him that way either. WTH?

2007-12-16 14:04:34 · 1 answers · asked by new life abundant 2 in Singles & Dating

Both my best friend and my boyfriend know how much I love him. This is the second time it has happend, and I CAN'T STAND IT ANYMORE.

He hangs out with her more than he hangs out with me. She has been his best friend for long and so have I.

He gives her big, expensive stuffed toys, and I only get cheap, small ones.

He follows her and allows her to take advantage of him, but I was never followed when I asked for it nicely.

They talk on the phone alot, too.

She knows a lot of his secrets that I am told later.

Yeah, I know. She's HOT. I'm NOT.

She DOESN'T love you, I DO.

Sheesh.

2007-12-16 14:04:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my fiance is coming home from korea after being gone for 8 months. he was alotted 3 weeks and was going to spend 7 days with me, 7 days with his extended family and 7 days with his mom. (i live on campus so he will have to stay in a hotel, which is why we decided on 7 dyays only) well now his mom decided to throw him a big party on the EXACT day he was supposed to come see me and i cant go to it because i have school that morning. also, i go to school 3 hours away from his house. i am SO pissed that his mom is doing this because it throws off everything and i may only get to see him for like 4 days. how can i fix this????

2007-12-16 14:03:48 · 3 answers · asked by ifeellikepennies 5 in Other - Family & Relationships