About two months ago my girlfriend and I broke up. We were together for about 3 months and everything was going great. We had been neighbors since the 6th grade and had always been friends, but always had this feeling at the back of our minds that we would date at some point. After the first two months of dating I became sick with mono and about 1 month later we broke up. When we broke up she approached me very nicely and wanted the relationship to end on good terms.I was in a very depressed mood because of other things going on in my life and said some things that I wish I could take back. Ever since the breakup I've been really anxiety ridden. I've had trouble with some close friends at school and I just feel like I cant connect with people the way I used to. I think the problem is that I want to still be good friends with my ex, but im not sure I have the guts to call her up and tell her how I feel. Is it possible that this anxiety I have is because I haven't contacted her?
2007-12-16 14:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is just puppy love move on and find someone else to cuddle with..Don't stress over nothing that is not ther no more..good luck
2007-12-16 14:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by avater 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been suffering from post partum depression for the past one year when I gave birth to a baby boy. I couldn't stop thinking about how my husband loves him more than me and how things might be better if he wasn't born at all. Thus, I stayed away from him because I knew that I might do something I will regret for the rest of my life.
Almost instantly I went to a therapist and convince them that I need help. Among other things, I've tried herbal supplements and other book to treat depression but nothing works like the Depression Free Method. So now I'm proud to say I'm one of the happiest mother in the world. My husband loves us both very much and I thank the Lord for the blessing he gave us.
Depression Free Method?
2016-05-16 09:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a great friend who was also hot and we decided to give dating a try. Big mistake, after about 4 months it was over and we both lost a great friend. We see each other at random events, but I can’t bring myself to get passed small talk. When we look in each other’s eyes, we both know we could be great together, but the fear of wrecking our friendship continues to wreck our friendship. I know this doesn’t make sense to anyone who hasn’t experienced it, but it is the truth for me, and I’ve had very serious relationships with many types of girls and have never experienced the kind of pain I have when I lost a friend-turned-lover. I don’t have any great advice except to say, I feel your pain and she probably does to.
Unfortunately, only time will heal this and it is very important to both of you that you get on with your life and find new friends, etc. Once the insane tension has passed, hopefully you will be able to get some part of your friendships back…but I honestly think that is more fantasy than reality. However, in my case, I have met plenty of other cool people and that helps a lot! Seriously, find lots of new friends and keep busy.
Oh, feel free to call her and tell her you are sorry. Keep it short. You were friends and she will listen, but less is more. Offer an apology and tell her you hope you can one day build your friendship again...then say goodbye and find new friends so you don't act like a lost puppy.
2007-12-16 14:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you regret some things, then go ahead and call her.
let her know you are calling to apologize for whatever it was you said, and you are asking her forgiveness...
i'm not sure if your anxiety and other issues are the result of what happened between you and your ex, but it takes a big man to stand up, apologize and be sincere... i think it would be a very nice gesture to call her.
2007-12-16 14:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call her, don't feel bad, mono causes anxiety, so try and explain that too. You will get past this, it just takes time. Try not to worry, this too shall pass.
2007-12-16 14:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by sandy t 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her motivation you try to approach her if you love her and you give her good suggestion or motivation so her situation better. And say what you want to say to her bring her to be good mood i think this ways so effective
2016-04-09 08:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋