Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

Im 14.
Im Kinky as hell
Im a Virgin
I like the dude
The dude likes me 2 n hes a virgin aswell and were are pretty much the only 2 virgins.

My body feels like its giving me hint that im ready.
My opinions on sex have changed a bit.
Everyone i know lost it when they were 13 so im the oldest virgin but im not worried what they think because i consider sex a personal matter I wont freak n tell.

And i know everyones gonna write saying "OMG NOES DONT DO IT!!!1111" but i want opinions from teens with the same problem plz be honest i answer me with ur solid opinion not something thats been shoved down the throghts of teenagers for years by saying "NO NO NO NO NO" if u think no then plz give me reasons and personal experiences NOT insults nor patrinazation

2007-12-16 15:36:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to go in to details, but what I found out has really upset me. I'm trying very hard not to be mad about this because he's not here anymore. How do I put this out of my mind? I love my father very much and it hurts that I've found this out. I wish I'd never discovered this. I know what he did was a mistake, that's why I want to forget what I know.

2007-12-16 15:35:45 · 24 answers · asked by JustMyOpinion 5 in Family

Ok this has happened to me a BILLION times
girls flirt with me
i flirt back
i ask them out
they say maybe...
later on they tell me they cant...
i am 19 and deal with people around my age...
what i keep finding out is that females at this age are afraid to get intimate....WHY?
First they flirt, tell u they are interested, but when you make a move they back out
should i just just keep sticking with girls 5 years older than me?
WHY BE AFRAID OF INTIMACY AT THIS AGE?!!!
At first it was funny, but as it keeps repeating over and over it is beggining to get very annoying lol

2007-12-16 15:35:41 · 5 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad always yells at me and can never control himself. one minute he loves me the next minute he hates me. He always says I never respect him but I can't even remember the last time he showed me respect. He just had surgery and I know he is in pain but he was like this before surgery. He tells me and my mom are stupid and that we have no common sense. He yells at me because my showers are too long or I use too much electricity but he has 6 motorcycles and a new truck and he says I can't even have a cell phone. I am 13 and my mom is never this harsh. All the other guts my age dont have parents this cruel. I will lie awake in my bed for hours crying and I keep thinking that I should just kill myself because my parents treat me like ****. My mom will always tell me that I dont do certain things right and in my parents eyes nothing I do is right. I always try tohold back my anger but sometimes i just can't help my self bcau I feel so unloved and horrible.

PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!!!!

2007-12-16 15:30:25 · 9 answers · asked by tstud925 3 in Family

My dad i a drug addict. He lives with me, my husband, and my step-daugther. Also I'm taking care of my brother. Recently I suspect he's fallen of the wagon cause he should have enough money to move out but he said he doesn't have any money. He went to the hospital 2 days ago, he said he was going to kill himself, and he won't call me back. I'm unsure of what to do. I can't take the stress of him living with us anymore, but I don't want him to go off the deep end if I tell him he needs to get out of the house and it's CHRISTMAS! I want to ask him to to an oxford house. I don't want to feel responsisble if he kills himself cause I asked him to move out. Any advice apprecaited

2007-12-16 15:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by msulli2366 1 in Family

2007-12-16 15:29:20 · 19 answers · asked by mintman123 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 15:29:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like I don't fit into the society, enviroment, and people around me. I want to move to another state. My dad says as long as at least one of your brothers (or Both) would like to move, but my brothers don't want to and they like it here. How do I convince my brothers to move?

2007-12-16 15:27:30 · 1 answers · asked by tomsingsdumpweed 1 in Family

I have a step-dad that my mom married a couple of years ago. He was really nice until my sister Prudence was born. He is really mean to me and never lets me do anything fun. When he is home he never let's me watch TV or go on the computer on anything. He treats me like an animal. I try to be nice to him but it never works. He has been really nice for the past week and now he is really mean. What should I do to make him be nice? Oh by the way he never yells at my sister just me. Why?

2007-12-16 15:22:48 · 15 answers · asked by ~ Shawn Timothy Gates ~ 1 in Family

Went out with someone just cause you felt sorry or pressured....

2007-12-16 15:20:32 · 6 answers · asked by Speedstar 5 in Singles & Dating

ohkayy. well my boyfriend for almost four months used to be all that "lovey-dovey" and really sweet. im in highschool..but we are in two different districts so i only really see him on the weekends. well recently he hasnt been talking to me as much..and his messages are getting shorter and shorter [to the point of a few words].. and he hasnt said i love you in a while..even though ive told him twice. a lil after this started happening, i noticed that he had a really good amount of convo with this girl whos homeschooled. they went out last year but had to break up cuz of her parents.. she got over him but he never seemed to stop liking her. well now they have planned a xmas party together..and im invited..but ive gotten exTREMELy jealous.. cuz i feel like i have no competition. i think he still likes her.. but i dont know how to bring it up with either of them. are they getting too close or am i over reacting.?

2007-12-16 15:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by blahblah 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello, this is a Korean girl who is meeting her white boyfriend in 5 days. We've been talking online for 6 months and he's coming here to spend time with me. and I'd like to know if I'm overweight or not :). I'm 5'4 and 132lbs. I'm not "fat" but not skinny either. I have a bit of tummy and got some butt. Hmm will he like me? He says I love you and makes me soo happy. He's very sincere too. I'm nervous about this meeting and please advice me about the date:) Thank you guys.

2007-12-16 15:11:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are both on the school b-ball team just its boys team and girls team.when I do bad in games he always says good job. but anyway when the teachers let us play basketball for lunch and stuff we were aloud to make teams for like a small league for our school, and he picked me to be on his team. and when we play in gym,and he always grabs my sides and picks me up in air a few inches off the ground.

and during school he is a big flirt,but alot of guys are.and he will always say my name in the hall and smile,plus he always messes up my hair as a joke to get me mad. I think he does but I'm not for sure.

Thanks

2007-12-16 15:07:52 · 4 answers · asked by SC 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so we have been going out for almost 2 months well we had a fight and i wouldn't talk to him for a week and a half well the day i was like i guess ill talk to him today and fix everything well then my friend came up and we were talking and she said he has another girlfriend which i just found this out yesterday so i have no clue what to do

2007-12-16 15:07:48 · 14 answers · asked by Tori 2 in Singles & Dating

...to go on and on about how their husband/boyfriend/fiance treats THEM so wrong. No attention. No apologizing. He doesn't make enough money. He doesn't pay his child support.
What does the man complain about? No sex. That's it. I'm sure he has MANY more things he could complain about, but he don't. Why is that?

2007-12-16 15:07:34 · 22 answers · asked by primalclaws1974 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We are going to have our wedding AND reception at our home church and MOST of our family live within 1 hour of the church. How soon should invitations go out? We will finish premarital counseling in early April and would like to get married in early to mid-May. Would 4 to 6 weeks be appropriate?

2007-12-16 15:07:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she hugged this guy infront of me and i noticed she glanced at me while doing so is this a good thing. She ignores me all the time were not even friends yet she is 18
she has called me cute before

i ignore her to b/c im nervous she is not shy at all she is a party type

She also sometimes looks me in the eyes when i walk by her

2007-12-16 15:05:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a best friend at school, im a girl and my friend is a guy..... we always hang out together...he so nice and respect me as a friend...and the other day he tell me that he fell in love with me.. i was shocked.....hahahaha......what should i do???

2007-12-16 15:04:13 · 15 answers · asked by mushu 1 in Friends

okay, i just really need someone to talk to and give me advise... and i'd be happy to do the same (=

you dont need to be a therapist or anything like that... just talk to me! i'd actually perfer if u werent.

i feel really like just BLAH, lol. i dunno, just confused i guess.

i have yahoo & AIM so yeahh...

IM me!

2007-12-16 15:04:06 · 5 answers · asked by Marie 2 in Friends

I really love this girl but I got rejected, I got angry and jealous later on for something and called her a lying *****. She found out and was angry. I tried to apoligized but she didn't respond. I have 1 day to make it up to her, and show her I really love her (I doubt I can do that.) Anyone have any suggestions please help. We're both 12 years old.

2007-12-16 15:03:06 · 1 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

What things that she does just make you stop and think about how amazing she is?
Every now and then I get the feeling my boyfriend feels this way, I just don't know what exactly brought it on...

2007-12-16 15:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know of any churches that do not allow all family members to attend a wedding of a another family because they do not attend the church, do not attend church or other stuff.

If they are any such churches here in the USA, why isn't there more of a public outcry over this disgusting and horrible practice? What should be done to end this ?

2007-12-16 15:00:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Then when they come along, do you do it again? If so when does it stop?

2007-12-16 14:59:33 · 3 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

spare no details. I want to hear it all

2007-12-16 14:58:22 · 5 answers · asked by Yay! 4 in Weddings

We need your opinions again.

There is a husband & wife.

The husband does some things which are really crappy to his wife.

The wife's life is all about the husband .. and does everything for him .. and to make him happy.

The husband is basically a good man .. but just does unfair & crappy things to his wife.

The wife finds the crappy things out.

The wife confronts the husband with what he has done.

The husband just gets mad - and starts saying something petty about his wife .. trying to get off the subject of what he has done.

The husband just gets mad.

He will not treat the wife nice about the crapy things he has done to her .. he shows no remorse.

What do you think when a husband treats his wife this way - when he is the one who is in the wrong by treating his wife wrong ... and just gets mad at her when she tells him about what he has done to her. He knows he did it - there is not doubt.

He is just defensive & mad.

What do you think?

2007-12-16 14:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by Tara 7 in Marriage & Divorce

4 years is verbally abusive she is crazy and sometimes throws things at me she is always angry and miserable and always accusing me of cheating for no reason. I love her so much and have never cheated on her never given her any reason to even think that. I don't know what to do. We fight all the time she keeps telling me thing will get better I'm so good to her do anything for her. Why is she treating me like this? We recently had a fight she couldn't control her temper. I moved out Its been almost 3 weeks.She has tried to get me back but I'm sick of it. She said she would to get help and we don't have to get back right away. I'm so mad I have not answered her phone calls. What should I do? enough reason to move on. I'm so miserable with her but I do love her and our child

2007-12-16 14:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i know it must hurt but cmon do they really have to double over and roll on the ground?

2007-12-16 14:57:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's not really about their looks, though that's a plus. It's mostly about their cultural warmth, attitude and personality. I'm not saying black women are all the same way but generally they tend to have the qualities that I love.

2007-12-16 14:55:40 · 8 answers · asked by Nikky 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad bought this gorgeous ring back in the early 80s from a friend of his for about $800. I've always loved the ring, so my dad has saved it and also considers it an investment of his. It's 1.04 carats, platinum, and apparently one of the best qualities available. It was appraised at ~$8500 (not with the diamond wedding band). My boyfriend recently proposed to me with it and apparently proposition my dad for it. My dad sold it (both rings) to him for $5000, but told him all that money would go right back into our wedding since they don't have a lot to help me out with. It's a little steep, but I understand my dad's point of wanting my fiance to be proud, as well. Since then, my fiance's father has flipped out and accused my dad of being very wrong by selling it and told my fiance my family isn't normal. He thinks my dad should have given it to us, regardless that it's going into the wedding. Now I don't even want the ring. I guess what I want to know is -- was my dad wrong?

2007-12-16 14:55:14 · 32 answers · asked by Lovinglife 1 in Weddings

2007-12-16 14:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating