Ok this has happened to me a BILLION times
girls flirt with me
i flirt back
i ask them out
they say maybe...
later on they tell me they cant...
i am 19 and deal with people around my age...
what i keep finding out is that females at this age are afraid to get intimate....WHY?
First they flirt, tell u they are interested, but when you make a move they back out
should i just just keep sticking with girls 5 years older than me?
WHY BE AFRAID OF INTIMACY AT THIS AGE?!!!
At first it was funny, but as it keeps repeating over and over it is beggining to get very annoying lol
2007-12-16 15:35:41 · 5 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wemen will do what ever to live up to men they think are too god for them. Maybe this is the only way they think they will connect with you. You have nothing in commen then she sees this when she is about to make a misktake of sleeping with you and backs out! maybe they are jut intimidated!
2007-12-16 15:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of valid reasons why a young lady would be afraid of intimacy at this age, and each year there's a fresh crop of new victims in case anyone forgot "why" that fear was valid.Teen pregnancies, STDs, guys with "hit it and quit" mentality...those are just a few highly undesirable results to getting intimate with the wrong kind of guy, so unless and until they're sure, they're understandably skittish. So, that being said, how do you NOT get that?
2007-12-16 23:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurls are jz like dat u knw......they r jz afraid to hook up with a guy.......the reason why a gurl flirt is because they are jz bored~ even thou they say they love u they actually don't mean it.....if u wan a gurl who really mean what they are saying they will make the move before u do.....
but i dun knw a 19 year old gurl would think because i'm younger than dat =X LOL....
but all i knw dat why they back out was because i they don't wanna hook up wif u.......mayb it was something u did or say dat made them back out from u.......try to remember wat u did and if u did something wrong try to correct them before u tackle another gurl...
2007-12-16 23:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what. Flash a marriage certificate and a ring at them, and see how fast they warm up! Oh boy,HALF!
2007-12-17 00:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply...Girls just wanna have fun!..well most of them at that age anyway. :)
2007-12-16 23:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋