Do things you want come to you when you aren't "looking" for them?

Answer 1

A lot of people say that, but I believe that's just a way of keeping yourself from going crazy with anticipation through the time it takes your dreams (whatever they may be) to come to fruition. Any time I've wanted my car keys, for example, I've had to actively look for them...they've never once walked up and handed themselves to me. What we're looking for determines what we see.

Answer 2

absolutely! Everything that has ever happened in my life came to me when I wasn't looking . I don't have a clue why it works this way, I only know that it does.