Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

im not talking about what will make a relationship last....im talking about what causes girls to be attracted initially...
i am not a funny guy i admit...never was never will be...so is there other things i can do or show that attracts girls?

2007-12-16 22:42:26 · 24 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2 in Singles & Dating

My son's dad is from overseas. He left me while I was pregnant, son now 12 year old. Never got support, but he went to court when son was 2, dragged me thru mud, and got extensive visitation. I never asked for support b/c i was advised he would still harass me. they have gone on vacations before and not taken him, the excuse? "He dosent have a passport".
He fights me on everything. He was abusive verbally so I asked him to communicate by email, then he wouldnt respond to any emails (ie school lunch questions, ect). then if I called after that, he would say, email ONLY, CLICK. Recently when he called, I did the same back at him (he had been doing this for months...EMAIL ONLY, CLICK. Now, the night before he leaves, at 11:30 pm (and I could NEVER call HIM at these hours) he wants to drop something off for son, as he is leaving. He dropped off a Christmas card and $80. the Xmas card was like, "Our family wishes you a Merry christmas, son", signed dad and family.
I called him after that

2007-12-16 22:40:19 · 3 answers · asked by me 2 in Family

we got the decree nisi, but then got a letter from her solicitor demanding money that just doesnt exist, he wont talk to her which makes things harder to resolve, she keeps putting on demands that we cant come to, its already been 2 and a half years since the divorce started, im beginning to think it will never go through, we are waiting to get married, we havnt got engaged yet so no-one knows just incase she finds out and makes things more difficult for us, how can we get her to realise she wont get any of her demands and just let the divoce go through?

2007-12-16 22:32:35 · 9 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont feel the love i use to for my wife any more but the lady i had been / sleeping with , since 2 years. Also i dont want to divorce my wife as i know the childrens would suffer the most."THE LADY" now think its bad to keep up the relation and i should indulge in my family. I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER AT ANY COST. She stopped talking to me 1 year back and i cant get her out of my mind still, there is no time i can stop thinking of her, my wife since a year know about the infiedility and my relation that made the lady to stop talking to me, i want "THE LADY " back. Dont want my kids to suffer as well.HELP.

2007-12-16 22:24:22 · 11 answers · asked by Man_In_Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think i am cute, i know i am sexy........i have got the looks that drive the girls wild.....
they hear me talk, then they hear me walk.....
i send chills up and down their spine....

2007-12-16 22:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 22:17:39 · 8 answers · asked by John S2005 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-16 22:16:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OKay so ive been with my girlfriend for amonth now and i really do like her and i feel like we can take are relationship to the next level she tells me when ready for anything i wanan do shes a virgin atleast i think im not a virgin tho so yeah
but we can just hangin like when comes over my house all the time we end up just sitting around makeing out and fooling around touching eachother and what not is she ready for Sex what do you guys think?

2007-12-16 22:16:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw my gf and her mum and daughter eating at a cafe with my gf's collegue mate, whom they went to school together, (but is now married), He used to have a crush on my gf. I was shock to see them yesterday, and now, I'm not talking to her the whole day. She said I dont see anything wrong, Is this jelousness, or is it my fault that I got mad at her and said goodbye... PLease advise me

2007-12-16 22:13:45 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

If you read my last question you will understand this better.

I texted a girl apologising for leaving her hanging 2 days before and she gave me a call and told me not to apologise etc.

I text her later that night asking how work was, she sent me two texts back, then I text her and she ignored it (i reckon she fell asleep)

Basically, I know this is going to keep up this way if I keep contacting her

I've just about given up as she doesn't seem interested in me at all anymore.

What should I do from here?

What do you all think I should do?

2007-12-16 22:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a flesh tunnel, and its not huge (5mm) but i will go up to a 10mm, google it if your not sure what it is.
the only other piercings i have are my ears 3times.
do you think its too much?

2007-12-16 22:04:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw her kiss another girl. P.S. passionately not accidentally. When she find out that I know she tells me that they are only friend. Then another time, I caught her with another girl. She is my friend and cousin. She is 20 and is going to get married to my another cousin who is close to me. I know that he loves her so much. I don't want him to find out that she is cheating before or after marriage as I know he is crazy about her. Help me ! Give me an idea to stop her liking girls before he finds out.

2007-12-16 21:52:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just type yes/no
Example: instead of I have and I still believe, type Yes/Yes
Example: Instead of I have and I don't believe, type Yes/No

2007-12-16 21:40:33 · 19 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Singles & Dating

i have now found out that my bf may want to go to usa to work for maybe 12 or 18months. weve been together 2years. i wouldnt want to break up but do you think we can last? I am at uni in uk or i would love to go with him but i dnt think its possible.
please give me some advise as i feel a bit lost as to what to think about this.

2007-12-16 21:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Long story short, this lady and I dated a while back. We ended up breaking up because we had different goals. She went to college and I joined the Air Force. We have both kept in touch over the years, and I still very much love her, and she very much loves me. She got married to this other guy because they got pregnant. She is unhappy with her marriage and we both want to be together. I'm not too sure what to think about this situation. There is obviously only ONE way we could ever be together, but I guess I'm wondering if I should even be thinking about this. Ive dated many girls since then, but in the back of my mind I always know that it is she who I love, and she says the same about me...

2007-12-16 21:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by usafkevinls1 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 3 years (we recently broke up and got back together) has been talking to this girl for a couple of weeks online. theyve met while my bf and his friend were playing tennis and i guess they added each other on myspace. tomorrow hes supposed to hang out with her (alone im quite sure) to make her feel better about her failed relationship.

im just wondering...should i be ok with it? i want to be, because one of the things that caused our break-up in the first place was that i couldn't stand him being around girls too much and i promised him that ill try to be ok with him having friends that are girls, but is it really ok for them to hang out? just wondering...

2007-12-16 21:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by JM 2 in Singles & Dating

i kept a relation wd other girl,without her knowledge and sooner dat girl started blackmailing me if i leave her den she will telll everything to my girlfriend,,,but at last i decided not to cheat my girlfriend anymore n i left her and one day that ***** told everything to my girlfriend,,,my girlfriend loves me so much dat she cant leave me also and after knowing all dis she also dont want to stay wd me..i want her back in my life,n i wont break her heart in future,wat shld i do to get her love and trust back

2007-12-16 21:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. When he is normal, he is the most amazing, caring, loving boyfriend a girl could ask for. He is very considerate and does lots of cute little things for me. He never puts me down, has never said an insulting or mean thing towards me, and isnt one of those controlling ******* alot of girls get involved with.

Here's the thing: he has alot of stress/anger issues, and his mom is bipolar and he may be too. When he gets in one of his "moods", the slightest thing will piss him off. Stupid things that normal people (or even slightly angry people) wouldnt get upset about sends him over the edge. Even when he is like this, he has never come out and insulted me, but walking on eggshells around him really gets old. He has done a good job of controlling himself i guess, because he told me the other day that he will get these really hurtful thoughts running through his head sometimes....

2007-12-16 21:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by sami_sam 4 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone think thats a little unreasonable? Perhaps I am wrong.

2007-12-16 21:20:00 · 18 answers · asked by Allie C 2 in Singles & Dating

i know it's rude but i can't fight with my feelings to her.
at first when i saw her my feelings are the same or i have no feeling to her but after 3 years i'm in love with here now,i told my cousin last night about my feeling to her and he said that she has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is a close friend of mind and a relative as well. and i feel downhearted again and again
i want her in my life what should i do

2007-12-16 21:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by ironfist09 2 in Singles & Dating

You are in deep sleep in the night and suddenly you feel wet & chill on your cheeks. You wake up to know that, its your husband / wife kissing you in his / her sleep uttering some strange name that you never knew such person before!! He / She repeats the same for couple of times and goes to sleep again. What will you do?

2007-12-16 21:09:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That happened me but a well these things happen.

2007-12-16 21:07:59 · 12 answers · asked by D 7 in Marriage & Divorce

am doing study on divorce for coursework if you are willing 2 help i need to know:
your age
if you have been divorced and if possible why
if you think divorce is easier to get if you are male or female

2007-12-16 20:55:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this boy has been looking at me from a distance for about a month and a half. finally i decided to talk to him because i heard from on of his friends that he doesn't usually approach girls first. also my friend told me he was expecting me to talk to him because i'd added him as a friend on facebook and he'd been making eye contact etc, so i figured he was interested. it took me a long time to talk to him but i finally did and it was okay..and he seemed surprised, but he wasn't grinning like an idiot or anything (like i probably way)/ and i sent him a message later that night saying we should hang out but all he said was 'yea sure'. so im confused is it normal for some guys to be this aloof and passive, or is he just not that interested? im getting mixed signals like crazy. AND on top of it this other girl likes him and is moving in way faster..so i have no clue what to do... let it go?

2007-12-16 20:55:02 · 1 answers · asked by luckmess 2 in Singles & Dating

Are our morals badly degraded that we find it hard to relate properly?

Like
why are there more infidels than faithful partners?
why are some friends turn out to be traitors?
why do we leave the people we love?
why do some people love those they should not love?

2007-12-16 20:52:51 · 13 answers · asked by Comedienna 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 20:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I realize this sounds pathetic, but this is my story. I have always had a crush on this girl since middle school, we were close friends, we flirted with each other from time to time, but we never showed any physical affection. Through out high school she had many flings, although we were still close friends. In between her flings I would really start liking her again, which caught me every time because we hung out more. Although she would end up telling me about other guys she was hooking up with, I would see her at parties hooking up with guys and actually had oral sex with a close friend of mine. I still really liked her much. Anyways to make a long story short, eventually I gathered up the courage and kissed her in between one of her flings, and as of now we have been dating for over a year but even till this day is something I cannot forget. I really love this girl but sometimes I get really depressed over the past. We are both young, 19 yrs old, and I am not sure what I should do

2007-12-16 20:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she treated me like a boy as i was blind she has never, put her hands in her pocket very rear . she has a teenage daughter which is v spoilt has her own way and she told her mum that she hates me cause she did not want her mum to be happy that caused to help us split should i try and move on and forget her

2007-12-16 20:46:54 · 4 answers · asked by fireman 1 in Family

should i let it go and just realize that i am not attractive right now or put him in his place??

2007-12-16 20:44:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My controlling mom is basically forcing me to marry this guy (who is way older) in another country in order for him to gain citizenship in America. . .I do not want to be a part of this!!! HELP!!

2007-12-16 20:41:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce