should i let it go and just realize that i am not attractive right now or put him in his place??
2007-12-16 20:44:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the flirting consisted of hiding behind a door so that she'd come and find him and then runing into the hall after one another laughing hysterially after one another. May have been some tickling involved as well.
2007-12-16 21:01:09 · update #1
Put him in his place. He should show you the respect due the mother of his child, not to mention his wife.
2007-12-16 20:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Spartacus! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most men find pregnant woman to be very attractive. Each time I was pregnant I got twice as much attention from other men. No you should not just let it go.
For him to act this way is a real lack of consideration for how it would make you feel and disrespectful. What an *%*%*.
Especialy since you are 9 months pregnant.
2007-12-16 22:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by commoncents 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A pregnant wife with a rosy cheeks is the most beautiful person. It is also the most tender time of her life and she needs her husband to show unequivocal support.
To say that she is not attractive at this moment is totally incorrect. You are beautiful.
Probably that other woman egged him on. Your husband should not have fallen for it. Pull him aside and have a talk. Tell him that you do not appreciate his erratic behaviour and ask him to control himself. That will stop it cold, right there.
He is an insensitive brute. Sorry to say this - he is an idiot to do these things in front of you no less.
2007-12-16 21:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't act insecure, tell your husband it bothers you the way he interacts with this coworker and to please not do these things in front of you. I'm sure you are still very beautiful even though you don't feel like it. My husband was strange in that he liked the way I looked preggo, he kissed my belly and loved the large chest that went with it; I guess most men are not that way unfortunately. Just think, in a couple of weeks you will be done with this pregnancy and you can begin exercizing and looking great again, tell your husband to have some respect.
2007-12-16 22:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Brittney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put him in his place!as in one of the previous answers you're the mother of his (and your) child so he should respect you and consider your feelings. What gives him the right to be eyeing up other women? If he was the one pregnant instead you wouldn't go eyeing up other men would you? And tell him how icky it is to actually flirt with others whilst your own wife is pregnant that should put a stop to it.
2007-12-16 20:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by boggle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what ? you should put his stuff out on the sidewalk and change the locks on your house . How dare you put up with this crap from this jerk . He is disrespecting you and you are letting him . He is walking on you and you need to put your foot down . You work therefore you can support yourself . You dont need him . That child would be better off with you and he or she does not need a philandering father . Wake up woman and get rid of that sleeze you call a husband .
2007-12-17 01:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else on here:
Another point though, too - some men get really antsy when they realize they're going to have a child. And no one's addressed the skank that's running around with him...my guess is that her self-esteem must be pretty low and she's just looking for a power thing over you (esp if she's one of your co-workers). I used to work with b$%^#$ girls who would always flirt with my fiance when he came to pick me up - it's a power-thing.
bah...It makes me angry just thinking about it.
Don't forget how FABULOUS you are. And feel free to smack your husband.
2007-12-16 22:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by artteacher57 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Was he really flirting? You might just have thoughts like that because you feel unattractive at this moment (I'm sure you're not though). If by any means it was flirting, don't hesitate! Put him in his place. Ask him and tell him that his action bothered you and that you don't like it.
2007-12-16 20:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is the time you should be most attractive to him.Nearly due to have his baby.I would put him in his place as it is no respect for you from him doing this to you so close to giving birth.
2007-12-16 22:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Had to give everyone a thumbs up. Kill him - LOL. But, you should definitely put him in his place if you are 100% sure that he was flirting. But don't stress yourself over this.
2007-12-16 20:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by ejade00 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋