my boyfriend of 3 years (we recently broke up and got back together) has been talking to this girl for a couple of weeks online. theyve met while my bf and his friend were playing tennis and i guess they added each other on myspace. tomorrow hes supposed to hang out with her (alone im quite sure) to make her feel better about her failed relationship.
im just wondering...should i be ok with it? i want to be, because one of the things that caused our break-up in the first place was that i couldn't stand him being around girls too much and i promised him that ill try to be ok with him having friends that are girls, but is it really ok for them to hang out? just wondering...
2007-12-16 21:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by JM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no...im sorry. i dont think so..if he manipulated u back into the relationship...its becuz he knows u love him and ull do anything to be with him...dont get tricked...i was in a rship like this and he tricked me into thinking it was ok forhim to date other girls while we slept together ( or in his eyes "bf and gf")...i didn't want that and finally i stopped letting him abuse me. it is not acceptable at all...he's alone with her! anything could happen. plus he added her while u guys were broken up because he was attracted to her..tahts the only reason single guys add girls....stand up to him and tell him u dont like it...if he cant accept it then good bye!
2007-12-16 21:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it kind of sound like hes using the reason u 2 broke up to get a little closer to other women. I dont think that i would really be o.k. with it. but i really dont think that he plans on doing anything with her because he let u kno about the meeting if he tried to hide it some what then i would worry
2007-12-16 21:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're boyfriend is going to have friends that are girls that's normal. you can't try to control who he has in his life or you'll just end up making your relationship worse. if you are uncomfortable with it ask your boyfriend if you could meet her that way you can get an idea of what kind of person she is, then maybe you wouldn't have too much to worry about. if you can't trust your boyfriend then your relationship is going to very hard on you because you're going to be running around wondering what he is doing when hes doing nothing wrong.
2007-12-16 21:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by running.on.empty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be okay with it. Communicating on MySpace is one thing. A face to face meeting alone is another.
2007-12-16 21:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go for it. Make her "feel" better about a recent 'failed' relationship? Sounds like a recipe for adios amego.
2007-12-16 21:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he hasn't grown and has little respect for your feelings and you have trust issues. You know what to do.
2007-12-16 21:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prolly won't mean much more to him than a quick suck and *****.... just let the man get his nut and stfu
2007-12-16 21:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to wonder.All relations are same.
2007-12-17 00:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by mohansarovaram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope he wants in her pants and if shes running with him she prob let him in
2007-12-16 21:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join them its ok
2007-12-16 21:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by hotshot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋