I saw her kiss another girl. P.S. passionately not accidentally. When she find out that I know she tells me that they are only friend. Then another time, I caught her with another girl. She is my friend and cousin. She is 20 and is going to get married to my another cousin who is close to me. I know that he loves her so much. I don't want him to find out that she is cheating before or after marriage as I know he is crazy about her. Help me ! Give me an idea to stop her liking girls before he finds out.
2007-12-16 21:52:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is a cousin from my mother's side. He is a cousin from my father's side. They are not blood related. They met & hooked up.
2007-12-17 20:09:21 · update #1
i didnt read the whole paragraph just I saw her kiss another girl so I guess its safe to say you two have fun
2007-12-16 21:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot stop her from being a lesbian. But you do need to talk to her about not wrecking her life and his with the marriage when she knows she can't be there 100%. Divorce and child custody issues later because of coming out of the closet will be no easier than just ending an engagement now for 'other' reasons that don't need to be told. You may have to talk to him if she won't, or he may already know and just not care.
Sorry but did you say they are cousins? *hears banjo music*
2007-12-16 21:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn Moon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop anyone liking girls if they like girls, but you can tell the girl (not her fiancee) that you know she's messing around and that if she wants to get married she needs to decide if she's done dating other people. Or, maybe she could talk to her soon-to-be husband about this...he might find it hot! Maybe he'll be OK with her making out with girls on the side every now and then, especially if he gets to watch!
2007-12-16 21:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't stop her liking girls.
If she is gay, then it's going to be horrible for her to be married to a man and deny her true feelings.
She may on the other hand just be going thro an experimental phase, lots of us have.
Chat to her and tell her you know what she's been doing and ask her if she's happy to be getting married, she may need to talk to someone and deep down be dreading marriage!
2007-12-16 21:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by helthea72 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! wheren are you from? Cousins dont normally marry cousins in the U.S.A., cept maybe in Alabama, because the babies turn out all messed up. You should tell him whats going on, and you should tell her to come out of the closet.
2007-12-16 21:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the problem is that she likes girls. I think the problem is that she is cheating on your fiance!!!
You can't make her 'not gay'. No one can change that. Maybe you should talk to her, and tell her that it's not right to cheat on her fiance.
Just because she makes out with girls doesn't mean she's necessarily gay. Lots of girls make out with girls when they're drunk or experimenting, but they aren't attracted to females.
But that's not the point! The point is that she really shouldn't be cheating on her fiance!
2007-12-16 21:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by wndlssmgc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I was going to say what the hell who cares if she is gay I am strait but I do have one friend who is gay he is a guy and I got over it because at first i thought it was really gross but once I got to know him better I diddn't care.....just don't kiss infront of me with another guy....actually he is by or bio ao however it is spelled but yeah your side is more confusing I would just let them get married and if you see things happening between her and anothe girl talk privetly to your cousin and tell him what is going on.
2007-12-16 21:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy Good 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"an idea to stop her (from) liking girls before he finds out"?!!
Interesting. Hey, how about you tell him what you know and let him decide whether she is worth the trouble or not. Either way, you are being a little too meddlesome.
2007-12-16 22:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by 666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't work like that.
You can't stop a person from being
that way.
Remember she was your cousin before
she became your friend.
I would have told my cousin, her fiance
when it happened.
Sounds like she's in denial.
2007-12-16 22:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmm..you can't "make" her stop being attracted to other women if that is what she is into. Also...she's your cousin, and she's marrying your other cousin?? Sorry..this part is just too confusing if you ask me. Please reword some things to make them more understandable.
2007-12-16 21:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by :-) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋