i know it's rude but i can't fight with my feelings to her.
at first when i saw her my feelings are the same or i have no feeling to her but after 3 years i'm in love with here now,i told my cousin last night about my feeling to her and he said that she has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is a close friend of mind and a relative as well. and i feel downhearted again and again
i want her in my life what should i do
2007-12-16 21:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by ironfist09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry its difficult for me to move on
2007-12-16 22:04:50 · update #1
i think the only solution is by waiting till they broke up
2007-12-16 21:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Iam in the same situation man. Ive known this girl for 10 years and even back then i could tell she was gonna grow up to be a beautiful woman, and man did she! I went my own way i was engaged, was with this other chick for 2 years but never stopped loving the other girl. I feel ive always loved her. Our families are really good friends and her parents have been mother and father figures to me growing up. Her father even hinted to me a few years back that he would like it if we ended up together.
Me and my fiancee split but the other girl has a boyfriend. We are close friends and i hate it. Her BF is intimidated by me and i told him if he ever breaks her heart i'll break him, which scared him LoL. This girl is the kind of girl you want to marry, not just date or be your girlfriend but to marry! iam just gonna bide my time and wait for them to split then i'll move in for the kill.
You should do the same.
2007-12-16 21:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you just should deal with your feelings for her. for your own pleasure you just cant make someone unhappy. how do you know that the girl really loves the bloke. attaining what you want may be breaking someone elses heart. if they break up then you can just be a goo friend to her and eventually she will start to like. it takes time. so good luck with whatever you choose.
2007-12-16 21:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by laydee B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she married? Do they have kids? If not go for it. If she does not feel the same at least u will know and then you can move on
2007-12-16 21:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beat the crap out of him and tell him to FU** off. If he doesn't, Murder him and his family. Another way is to have sex with the chick and make the chick like you.
If you did any of the above, im not part of it. dont blame me for ur actions
2007-12-16 21:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Donthaveone D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want her, then at least try spending time with her first. Get her to like you, but don't push it, or it will become noticeable. Just be really good friends with her.
As for family...I mean, it will hurt since he's family, but that doesn't mean she cannot choose you.
2007-12-16 21:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by niiro13 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in a similar situation.
Niiro's advice is what everyone tells me, and I am going to follow it.
Good luck with her.
I am going to need it.
2007-12-16 21:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on and dont try breaking people up
2007-12-16 21:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maturity is doing the right thing,
in spite of what you feel.
Demonstrate your maturity.
2007-12-16 21:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a plan to kill her bf, then when he dies, offer your love and support to her, and when she realizes she lost somthing good, and now she has somthing good, DUMP HER.\
Lmao then we all when.
2007-12-16 21:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by traxxasx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋