Does anyone think thats a little unreasonable? Perhaps I am wrong.
2007-12-16 21:20:00 · 18 answers · asked by Allie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If t his is the case, you are not in a relationship, he is not your boyfriend and you should not consider yourself his girlfriend. There is something wrong here, take heed. God Bless.
2007-12-16 21:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actually think it is unreasonable especially if this bf is ashammed of where and how he lives or he is frightened of what you think of his mum and dad family etc, I don't know what your bf is like but there could be other reason why this happen, personally I didn't bring my school friends home to my house for many many years because I was ashamed of where and how I had to live, you know him so you would know more about him how he acts etc, so draw your own conclusion, but remember there is always a reason why people do things or how they behave and it doesn't always mean they are been bad or up to know good.
2007-12-16 21:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years is long enough, I think it's time he invited you over or at least explained what's wrong. Like maybe he's really messy and dirty or maybe there's some family issue or secret he just doesn't want you coming across, in which case he should just tell you, like if his mom is a drunk always passed out on the couch or something of a delicate nature, he's allowed to keep this private. Maybe he's poor, and your flashy and he thinks you'll be dissapointed... there are so many reasons, you might be able to figure it out if you tried.
2007-12-16 21:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by lampost blues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's definitely a sign of something not right. Have a serious talk without being confrontational. He may have a reason for this. May be ashamed or something. After two years though, if you feel slighted, you probably are.
2007-12-16 21:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by clowe722 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that he wasn't my boyfriend and that he may be married or in a relationship. That is a definite red flag, too bad it took you two years to notice it.
2007-12-16 21:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like as in you have been dating for 2yrs and he hasn't showed you his place?
if thats the case, then I would have to say that hes married or lives w/ another woman.
I hope its not true though, he may just be embarrassed of his living arrangements...who knows....you better get to the bottom of it though.
2007-12-16 21:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by .dreamin.w/.him. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean he left you for two years and didn't want to talk?
Then maybe he just wanted some time..
Or if he was still seeing you but not telling you where his home is, then he is probably cheating on you.
2007-12-16 21:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
going out with a boy for two years, and not showing you his house. man that is dodgy. whats he got in there that he dosent want to show you. i think you should talk to him. but, maybe it could be because his house is damaged or dirty. well, anyway good luck on that.
2007-12-16 21:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by laydee B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total red flag...very bad sign.
2007-12-16 21:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Wunderbar! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really messed up, either get him to show you where he lives or get ta' steppin'!
2007-12-16 21:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by precision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋