Long story short, this lady and I dated a while back. We ended up breaking up because we had different goals. She went to college and I joined the Air Force. We have both kept in touch over the years, and I still very much love her, and she very much loves me. She got married to this other guy because they got pregnant. She is unhappy with her marriage and we both want to be together. I'm not too sure what to think about this situation. There is obviously only ONE way we could ever be together, but I guess I'm wondering if I should even be thinking about this. Ive dated many girls since then, but in the back of my mind I always know that it is she who I love, and she says the same about me...
2007-12-16 21:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by usafkevinls1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she cheats on him she will cheat on you. Long story short!
2007-12-16 21:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Linda S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have a child. Do you want to be responsible for that child having to grow up with the parents apart? Just keep in touch as a friend. Don't even mention any other intentions. Wait to see if things work out for them before making a move.
2007-12-16 21:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'v been on both sides - my wife left me and I have had an affair - take my advice - walk away it will not work , you may think you can live happly ever after but believe me you have no idear of the grief you are about to let yourself and your family in for.
2007-12-16 21:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by The Ghost 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say that you still love her, if not how do you know that she is not happy with the marriage. I advice you to let her manage her present man, and you go on your on way with your many girls.
2007-12-16 21:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by ibrahimjumary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's unhappy why isn't she divorced? She shouldn't be involving you, and you shouldn't be involving her, into anything unless she's unattached. If she's making overtures to you and the divorce papers aren't filed yet SHE CAN'T BE TRUSTED!!! Don't get pulled into anything until SHE decides to divorce him without any encouragement from you. The End.
2007-12-16 21:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything till she divorces her husband. Life is short you two should be together if it will make you both happy.
2007-12-16 21:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by precision 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that soon you will be with her you won't be happy ,cauz simply if you build your happiness through other people sadness won't take anywhere but to your sadness as well think carefully before you do anything
2007-12-16 22:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by amiros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you cannot interfere with their relationship. It was her choice to marry the other guy. If they are not working out, they'll fall apart anyway then you can have her all to yourself =] but you'll have to wait a while.
2007-12-16 21:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to let you know when she is available if that's what she chooses to do. If she will cheat on him to be with you, then she doesn't think too highly of committment. Keep that in mind.
2007-12-16 21:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by clowe722 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she gets divorced then date her.
2007-12-16 21:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋