i kept a relation wd other girl,without her knowledge and sooner dat girl started blackmailing me if i leave her den she will telll everything to my girlfriend,,,but at last i decided not to cheat my girlfriend anymore n i left her and one day that ***** told everything to my girlfriend,,,my girlfriend loves me so much dat she cant leave me also and after knowing all dis she also dont want to stay wd me..i want her back in my life,n i wont break her heart in future,wat shld i do to get her love and trust back
2007-12-16 21:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got yourself in trouble, because you shouldn't have cheat on your girlfriend the first place, and then when you realize your mistake you try to break up with the other girl. The other girl got pissed at you and wanted to get even ( I wouldn't blame her, because I would probably did the same thing). There is probably something you can do to save this (pray to god that it would work), then you promise her that it will never happen again.... It is a long process to gain someone trust back, so try everything in the book such as doing romantic dinners, taking a trip or spending more time with your girlfriend.... This is a problem that you need to solve, and learn from it, because you should be lucky that you didn't get the other girl pregnant, then you will be in some deep trouble.... I hoping this advice works and I am crossing my fingers for you and your girlfriend....
2007-12-16 21:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its going to take a lot of time for her to trust you again, if she ever can that is. You should have told her the truth in the first place. tell her how much you love her and that you are sorry for everything that you have done, reassure her that you will be honest with her in the future. Unfortunatly you will then have to leave it up to her whether she takes you back or not. This might take time. Tell her that you will always be there for her to talk to, but don't push her too much.
Hopefully she'll come back to you. if not, remember to be honest in the future.
;)
2007-12-16 21:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by amelia_zamb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As for love, it's always there, that's why it was hard for her to leave. Trustwise, it's gonna be very hard for you to get it again, but it depends on her and her love for you. You have to do a lot of apologizing, and if she senses sincerity in your feelings of guilt & remorse, she might give you a second chance. I'm telling you it's gonna take you to hell & back to get her trust again. And if you love her like you say, she's worth it, isn't it? Best of luck.
2007-12-16 21:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Naf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You deserve what ever happens to you. Karmas a ***** buddy! Cheating is 100% unacceptable.
2007-12-16 21:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by precision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 'sun' wasn't shinning on you that day! You messed up! Why would she want you back now? Once a cheater, always a cheater. She has lost her trust in you!
2007-12-16 21:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 answers:
1. Apoligize and kneel in front of her and say that you would do whatever you would to get her trust back. You should treat her really nice after that. Don't ever cheat on her again. You should treat her really nice in front of everyone and smile. After a while, act as if nothing happened but still treat her really nicely
2. Rape her and make her squirt then sex, sex and sex until she is happy and loves you a lot.
2007-12-16 21:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Donthaveone D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That will teach you to betray other people's trust. Even if she takes you back, she will never trust you again. You will be walking a straight line or else.
2007-12-16 21:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im sorry but you can't - once youve done something like that - its over. you just have to get over it - you F***** up real bad.
Why the hell were you cheating on her anyway - if you truely loved her then u wouldn't cheat. You only want her back now because you can't actually have her.
2007-12-16 21:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit down and talk to her tell ur ur are so srry and what her back tell some of what u said here say how u feel and hope for the best
2007-12-16 21:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by kbquestions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. have another go with someone else BUT GET IT RIGHT.
She will never fully trust you again she will always have that in the back of her mind.
2007-12-16 21:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by The Unborn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋