There is two guys at my work that are dating eachother, only i know. A girl at work came up to me and told me there are rumors about me being a slut slepping with the both of the guys. I can either tell people that the guys are really gay or let people keep talking **** about me. I have nothing to do with them and their relationship.
2007-12-16 14:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by Honey b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stand up for yourself and tell her that is not true...maybe let them in on what was said to you..maybe they'll help clear the air without letting out their little secret
goodluck......
2007-12-16 14:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by dawnO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, stick situation. I'd definitely stand up for myself and convince them that you had nothing to do with the guys. I wouldn't go as far as letting the secret slip. If the rumors don't stop/get worse, maybe ask the guys for help backing you up?
2007-12-16 22:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason for the girl to say these nasty things 'bout you. Neeways, you know for a fact that it aint true, so just ignore it and if anyone does confront you, just tell them to be more vigilant and then talk, rather than jumping to false assumptions.
2007-12-16 22:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you need the guys to sort out for you because anything you say would be wrong, it has to come from them and you have to respect their confidence. Whatever they do, if these people keep talking about you like this, take it to the boss and get him to sort them out. You don't have to put up with this kind of crap from nobody.
2007-12-16 22:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to set the record straight about you. Lets say this would you rather protect their relationship which you have nothing to do with or your rep, which is yours, you have everything to do with it.
2007-12-16 22:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by newwigirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A matter of compromise..I would rather speak up for myself. option two is "Live and let live" like who cares about what ppl talks I know who I am.
2007-12-16 22:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by NGC87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not appropriate to discuss someone else's private lives with people you work with.... and if someone says something like that to you again, just act disinterested... maybe say "oh" and just walk away...
people are gossipy and stupid... i have come to learn that ignoring people usually shuts them up.
take care ok?
2007-12-16 22:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell people to go ask the guys themselves if they are sleeping with you....or drop hints about thier relationship...
2007-12-16 22:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋