she always wants her way and so do i, but she is so stubborn!
2007-12-16 18:12:20 · 25 answers · asked by sahuayo20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to work with her. take short breaks if she doesnt stop. try not to end the relationship without attempting to work on it first, because you will both be heart broken.
most girls are used to being spoiled when young, and that carries over into their relationships...be patient...but dont let your self be walked over.
2007-12-16 18:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Compromise!!! My boyfriend and I are both stubborn as all hell! The only way we can get anything done right is if we agree that if we do one thing one person wants, we will go and do the other thing the other person wants later. (Or if it cant be moved till later, make up for it in some other way.)
Example: I wanted to go out on halloween and just have all kinds of crazy fun. Talked about it for a full month ahead of time. Halloween comes, he doesn't want to leave the house. We agree to go home and watch a scary movie if he takes me out for our next month anniversary to The Melting Pot. He did! That was better than going out on halloween.
2007-12-17 02:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mintminty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl of bossy type, coz i think a bossy girl will make her boyfriend feel so miserable. Gentleness is something we, Vietnamese girls, own hihi.
In your case, i think you should consider yourself first, whether ur opinion is reasonable or not. It can be ok if she keeps her idea bcoz urs is an unreasonable one.
If she's so bossy, talk to her frankly, and tell her that you will leave her if she won't change.
Then you'll see who will have to say sorry first, haha
2007-12-17 02:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by TRANG KB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to learn the art of compromise. Neither one of you can have your way all of the time. Good relationships don't work that way. You two should talk about this aspect of your relationship and figure out how to take turns or negotiate concensus in your decision making.
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2007-12-17 02:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by mariamnorthmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her it's selfish and it's unfair. you have to compromise in relationships. there is no way it will work if one person always gets what they want. you could be just as stubborn if not more just to show her what you have to deal with. i don't recommend it though because it could cause problems if she gets upset enough.
you just have to show her that a relationship takes 2 people...not a stubborn, selfish person who expects to get everything they want when they want it.
you have a voice in your relationship too...use it :)
2007-12-17 02:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by LADYBUG2 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey get both sides. Tell her how you feel, and ask her how she feels. There's probably more to this "bossiness" than you think.
And if there isn't ... breaking up might be the best solution.
2007-12-17 02:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mousey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to live with her or just find someone that u would get along better. But then again girls do tell guys what to do lol and we must do it well...not always lol
2007-12-17 02:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys r not a good match.u may break up in future bcaz u both want u r own way,which will surely give birth to many fights.so its ubetter u forget her!!
2007-12-17 02:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by ☆glamgirl☆ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part ways. Life is too short to spend it with someone who is selfish and doesn't share in getting their way. Run before you get trapped.
2007-12-17 02:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lazer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave. No one deserves the be around this type of behaviour.
Sounds like a bully.
2007-12-17 02:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋